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Are there any Free Black Christian Dating Sites? Are there any Black Christian Sites that are Free?

Should black Christian women start dating Atheist men so they can stop being murdered by Christian men? The number of black females shot and killed by their husband or intimate acquaintance (132 victims) was nearly three times as high as the total number murdered by male strangers using all weapons combined (47 victims) in single victim/single offender incidents in 2006. http://www.vpc.org/press/0809wmmw2.htm 95% of Black women would not associate, date or marry Atheist men (men who don't believe God exist) so therefore, they're being murdered by God believers, not Atheists. Atheists are the most peaceful people in the USA Proof: http://www.skepticfiles.org/american/prison.htm

I'm looking for a black female christian to date in london age (20-26)? I am black good looking Jamaican, abit funny, out going, bold, endures things, 5ft 9in, age 26, God fearing, a committed christian, don't smoke don't drink, patient, waiting for your reply. Don't reply if you are going to Judge me leave that for God, thanks

Do malaysian girls date christian black men? Hi everyone Im a young christian black man, Im moving to Malaysia soon and I'll be staying there for a few years. All my friends are telling me that Malaysian girls being in a strongly Islamic country do not date christians, and they told especially if you are a black man. Im wondering if Im in for very lonely years in Malaysia me being a black man and if I'l never have a girlfriend there unless if its another foreigner like me. Anyways Im not blaming anyone of racism or anything Id just like to know the reality. I'll be living in Kuala Lumpur by the way. Thanks to all who'll try to answer my question.

where can I find ardent Christian arab girl for serious dating? I am black and Christian, 29yrs old?

is it ok to date a black guy if your a christian? ok so im white and the guy is black weve been dating for a while and we r in love but my parents do not approve so we r keeping it a secret..but they only dnt approve bcuz he is black and thts not christian like but is it ok to date a black if your christian help!

What was the show on USA about the college kids? One's name was Christian and he dated the black girl.? It was similar to Saved By The Bell, the college years?

Is there a reason why Asian Christian women wont date A Christian Black Man? A close friend of mine attends a non denominational multi ethnic church. He became friends with a young asian man there that had similar interest as he did. This young man has several female cousins to which my friend is very interested in one so my friend asked if they all wanted to meet at his place to watch the game and barbecue. Many people attended and the young woman was also there. So my friend begins to talk to her and they seem to hit it off. A few days later my friend is talking to the young man from church and he inquires about his cousin and he replied she thinks your a great guy but she cant date a black guy. My friend inquired as to why that was and the young man responded by saying that it was because african american anatomical endowment. Really?????? Why should any of that matter if you find someone that believes what you believe and is going to treat you right!!!!!

Question for black and Asian's about dating in areas that don't have high populations of either? - You don't have to be of this background, but try to answer it as if you were in their shoes. I'm asking in terms of this criteria. You're born and raised in the U.S. The place you live in isn't more than 8% Asian or 15% black. You're Christian or not that religious. There's more black's in America and many of the places they live in are more than that percentage so it's easier to understand why it'd be easier to stay within. I'm asking the question in reference to Christians since if they used a church as a meeting people it'd probably include white American's. Although not all, many Asian's are either Christian or not religious. That's why I couldn't ask the question to Middle Easterners though since few are Christian. - When dating people, would you expect the majority of the people you date to be of your racial background? - Do you consider it difficult finding people of your background who can relate to you simply because the odds are less since there's less people? - It's hard to ask Latinos this question since it's not a race and many Latinos actually are white so they could racially and physically relate to the majority of this country's population. Many are immigrants and saw themselves this way in their own countries. Not all Latinos would conjoin all 19 Spanish speaking countries as one eithier. If you're not apart of their particular nationality, than everything else could be considered equally relevant. It's also hard to ask the question to Native Americans since most people who claim to be it who don't live on reservations usually are mixed with white and usually look white (because they're usually more of that). Those who live on reservations probably wouldn't be likely to mix if they plan on living there. The question could be directed towards Native Alaskans and Hawaiians, but the percentages of their ethnicity in most of the places in which they live are higher than that of the average of black or Asian Americans. Says who? If that's what you believe, please support your answer more. That's not the kind of answer I'm looking for though. I'm asking how easy or difficult do you find it finding someone of another background? Or your own. How have you managed for the majority of who you've dated to be black if who you've desired is educated (or ''not hood'')? Do you think it's hard? Or do you program your mind to kind of play process of elimination to non-black's? Shawn - I'm white and of Italian background, but I would date any women of any background. I'd date a person of any religion too. I really don't care for religion or affiliate myself with Christianity too much, so it wouldn't matter. If I were to only stay within Italian's, it wouldn't be easy. It'd be challenging just finding people of my background. In El Paso (and to a lesser degree San Antonio), it'd likely be equally as difficult for a European-American of non-Latino/Mexican ancestry to stay within that. Maybe as difficult as it would be for black or Asians. The group that is most dominative will have it the easiest. That'd why you'd begin to see ethnic and class distinctions within these groups though. Whether that's American or foreign. Or ''light'' or ''white'' or dark or Meztiso. I could understand in that the other people might not always be accepting. It's unfortunate. I think it depends on who it is, what part of the country you're in and the person. How have I managed? It's a good question. I'm Italian. If I intended on only dating people of Italian background, it wouldn't be easy because it's so hard identifying. Plus, so many are mixed. And even those who are you don't necessarily socially or ethnically identify as ''Italian'', but rather as ''white.'' The place I live (New Jersey) is probably like 15-20% Italian, so it's not like it's that hard finding people of my background. But out of all of who I date, it'd probably only about 20% of who I date. I have no preference to my background just because that's what I am. I'm actually single too. It's not necessarily relevant to ethnicity though. I'd be open to dating what ever group. I've run into the same problem as you sometimes though in that not all black girl's or girls of other backgrounds want a white or Italian guy. It can be frustrating. I try not being a sore loser either. Too bad I don't know you lol

Is there a hispanic guy perferably christian that would date a black female? not a dating add...just wondering...lol..umm that lives in P.A. or N.J..and do u have myspace? I perfer hispanic because my best friend is hispanic and i really like the culture

Why do people assume that I have low morals because i am attracted to black men? I recive a lot of looks and crude comments about my choice in men because of my looks (blonde, white). Why is it that people assume that i am a slut for dating black men? I am a christian and dress very conservatively, so its not like i look or act like a slut. thanks for your input.

Anyone looking to date a black 26 year old, good looking christian.? Under the circumstances!!!

Do you think the whole black suit, black hat, long beard Christian fundamentalist thing is kind of dated? I mean, if you want to dress conservatively, that's fine but it seems a bit silly to walk around dressed in heavy black clothing with a cloak (for women) in 110 F/40 C humid heat in the summer...

Does anyone have any stories about being a black guy dating an indian woman? By Indian women I mean from India, or an Afghani, or even a Pakistani girl. I was wondering how your experience was dating her and being with her? If the girl was muslim and you were a christian as well.

Black Inventors: John Christian? Need help on a project!!!!? I have a project about black history month and I have my information about John Christian but I need a picture of him (the biggest I could get) and I need to find his date of birth and date of death. Can you please help me? Thanx's!

Should dating sites be able to discriminate? Should they be allowed to limit themselves to whites only? Blacks only? Straight dating only? Gay dating only? Christian dating only? Atheist dating only? Most importantly, should the same rules apply to all? In NJ, a dating site was required to provide a gay dating service: http://www.newser.com/story/43153/eharmony-to-start-gay-dating-site.html

what are the best sites for online dating 50+ black/bi-racial? i am 52, single, christian and don't like the bar scenes/clubs to meet singles. I thought the there might be a good site for 50+, especially black since it seems a lot of men don't want to date black females. I am black, but look bi-racial which I am, but identify w/black culture. So its been hard to go on e-harmony,macth.com as most of the white men want Asian or white, and the black men a fewwww.

Christian and Muslim dating? I just got into a relationship with this girl. Im from Ghana and I'm a christian, she's an american black girl from harlem and she's muslim. I've read that muslim men can marry anyone they want no matter what the religion is but muslim women cannot marry anyone outside their religion. Is this a rule that applies to all muslims or is there a difference b/w being a muslim from the middle east and a black american muslim? It's too soon for me to say i wanna be with her 4ever and marry her but if we do go that far but can't b/c of her religion, can we at least date each other?

Can someone please give me a biography of John Christian?(Black Inventor)? Ok so I need the date of birth and everything. I tried looking eveerywhere but i couldn't find his date of birth or anything. someone please help me!!!!!!! this is due on the 29th

Do Christian White female like Christian Asian male? I was just wondering since I don't see any Christian White female dating Christian Asian male but I always see the other way around and they even end up marrying and having kids. The reason I'm asking is because I am a Christian Asian guy and find Christian Caucasian/Black/Hispanic lady really attractive. I just don't know why. I'm not saying I don't like Asian girls. Please tell me from your point of view. Thanks Nasrul F why don't you stfu I bet you are probably a fking loser!

Okay so I really like a Muslim boy, but I'm black. Are Muslims allowed to date? Can they date black girls? I'm Christian, and he's going through a really bad break up that I think was caused by his parents not liking the girl.

So my Christian mom says God dissaproves of interaccial dating? -sigh- I can't seem to get any peace with this woman.Anyway I'm dating a white boy. He's 16 hot as fxck with long black hair. He has both ears peirced. My mom says it's wrong for men to have their ears peirced and that because he has long hair(down to his back) he is gay.-rolls eyes- I'm 14 and I can't reason with this lady. I'm 14 and I'm black. I'm a pagan but I lied and told her I was agnostic. He's athiest. She claims I left Christianity because of him. We have been arguing for a week. I'm seriously close to telling her to shut the hell up. She forces me to say prayers and prevents me from partying.(Which is my favorite hobby.) This week has been nothing but church. Help MEEE!!! He's not gay. My mom just thinks he is.

I am not Racist! but I dont want my daughter dating Blacks.? I am not Racist! but I am against interracial dating and marriage. My daughter brought a black boy home from school against my rules. I told the boy to go away and never talk to my daughter again. Some of my best friends are black, but my Irish roots must be kept Pure, my daughter is 17 years old. I am a Christian How do you feel about my actions? Am I a Racist to have White Pride.

This question is for Christian woman out there!!!!? For White Christian woman. Would you date a Asian, Black or Mexican guy and possibly end up marrying him? Or in the Bible it states that interracial marriage can't exist. I know many Christian Asian woman marrying Christian White guys but I don't see the other way. Are Christian White woman shallow? They only tend to marry within their race. Do their parents teach them not to marry yellow people? Please be honest. I have a big crush on this white girl at my church but I'm afraid she might be racist since her parents are racist toward Asian people.

Dating a guy who's half black. My dad doesn't like it, what do I do?!? Im really happy and deeply in love with this guy. He's showed me what lifes really all about. He's good to me and respects me. He's Christian and he taught me so much about God. Ive learned so much being with him and I don't wanna let him go. He's really a good guy but my dad doesn't think so all because he's half black. He gets angry that im out with him. Im 20yrs old and im mexican he thinks I should find someone within my race but its hard to find a mexican guy that has a good head on his shoulders,doesn't smoke nor drink. I found a good guy,he's working and saving up to go back to school ( he was going to a really expensive art school, 8grand a semester and majoring in animation) and I don't know what else to tell my dad. My dad says if I keep seeing him he'll kick me out the house . It breaks my heart because I feel like my dad doesn't want me to be happy. Im still being treated like a 15yr old and getting yelled at like iam 15,its ridiculous. I don't know what to do. Someone please help me :'(

Is this right? eHarmony forced to have a gay dating site? A gay man has won $5,000 and a free one year membership after he sued eHarmony for "discrimination" because they do not match gays up with each other. eHarmony settled with him. What do you think of the lawsuit? I think it is ridiculous that it did not get thrown out. Should a Christian dating website be forced to have a website for atheists, Muslims, and others? Should a "black singles" website be forced to have a site for white people too? http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,454904,00.html

This question is for Christian woman!!!!? For White Christian woman. Would you date a Asian, Black or Mexican guy and possibly end up marrying him? Or in the Bible it states that interracial marriage can't exist. I know many Christian Asian woman marrying Christian White guys but I don't see the other way. Are Christian White woman shallow? They only tend to marry within their race. Do their parents teach them not to marry yellow people? Please be honest. I have a big crush on this white girl at my church but I'm afraid she might be racist since her parents are racist toward Asian people.

Bi-racial dating and religion? ok so im 16 and white and i met this guy last year in show choir...hes black and 18 yrs old now hes exactly 2 years and 2 days older than me... last year we were the best of friends we told each other almost everything even our little sisters became friends...now im crushing on him big time and hes a little flirty with me hes dated a white girl before but ive never dated a black guy and im a christian so that's kinda against me religion...so my question is do i let our relationship go farther or do we just stay friends??

Black Lesbians(Coming out)???????????????????? im a black lesbian.I live in the suburbs, but the majority of my family lives in the ghetto,so they are kinda close minded. anyway how do i come out to a black, die hard christian family. my mom is the most important thing to me but i constantly have to hide what i feel when she says she hates gays and lesbians and they should die.basically im trying to say should i come out or stay in the closet. and why is there hardly any black lesbians, is it like they are in the same situations. i have met a few black lesbians that are afraid of coming out because of their sorrounding. Also when i was straight my mom didnt like the fact that i only dated people besides black people and that's pretty much how i am now.its not i dont like black guys, its just ive been in relationships with black guys and it's not the same.not prejuduce btw. idk im weird

My family loves my black boyfriend but his family doesn't like me? I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year. My parents adore him. We are both studying pharmacy so my parents like that he is going places with his life and that he is respectful. The problem isn't me or my family or him. His family doesn't like me because I am white. I have dated black guys before and never had this issue. I dealt with jokes from people over the years but no serious problems. I had a lot of respect for his family because his mom and older sister raised my boyfriend once their dad bailed. Then I heard them referring to me as a white bitch and a cracker when they thought I couldn't hear them. They said he wasn't aloud to marry a white girl only a strong black woman. I am a strong person, just not black. I really love my boyfriend, but I don't know how to handle the situation with his family. He is very close to them and I am glad he cares about them. I don't know how to change their minds. Then when they found out I wasn't Christian, but Jewish, it got even worse. I told him about it and he said to just ignore it and that they will get over it. Any advice??

This question is for all the Christian White female out there!!!!? For White Christian woman. Would you date a Asian, Black or Mexican guy and possibly end up marrying him? Or in the Bible it states that interracial marriage can't exist. I know many Christian Asian woman marrying Christian White guys but I don't see the other way around. Are Christian White woman shallow? Do they still stereotype certain race? Is is because woman wants a masculine guy who is good in bed? They only tend to marry Black guys over Asian and Mexican any given day and some only within their race. Do their parents teach them not to marry yellow people? Please be honest. I have a big crush on this white girl at my church but I'm afraid that my chances are very low since there are only Asian girls with White guys and there isn't any Asian guys with White girls at my church. Do you think I should just go for Asian girls who is Christian? There isn't that many Christian Asian woman out there and if there are, they all tend to marry white guys. Personality I don't really like Asian girls but I'm not being racist or anything. Please help me out guys. Thanks

Hindu/ Indian & Christian/Mixed Relationship? Well, let's start off here. I'm a mixed blooded girl with black/cherokee from my dad, and Filipino from my mom, and simply, at school, I pass as an Indian very well.[I have long, pure black hair (not Nappy), black eyes and brown skin] I'm really good friends with this one guy, and everybody knows we like each other, BUT, we're too afraid to do anything because of the fact that he's indian and Hindu and I'm mixed and a christian. My parents are pretty open minded, but his parents are stressing that he only dates or Marries a Hindu/Indian,Yet, I know that he doesn't really want to because he even told me. One night, during open house, I saw his mom and sister, and I'm guessing they thought I was their culture because of my appearance, so they smiled at me. Really, I just went along with it and smiled back. Overall, my question is; Can a Hindu/Indian and Christian/Black-Filipino-Cherokee relationship work? And should i mind the culture/religion ordeal, or just go for it?

How can I approach/date a white guy? Ok, I attend a predominately white Reformed church (which I love by the way) and its obviously important for me to date/marry someone of my faith first and foremost. All the Christian black men that I've dated or tried to date have all believed in things that I that I don't (i.e. speaking in tongues). So I would really prefer dating someone that goes to my own church, who my beliefs would probably match up with better. However, as I said, 98% of the unmarried men in my church are not black. I personally don't have a problem with dating outside of my race, but how can I approach a guy w/o knowing whether or not they even date black women? Or even if I don't "approach" them so-to-speak, how can I even start up a conversation that might lead to a date or something I don't want to embarrass myself or anything, and I've never had issues like this with black men. So if white men who would/have/are dating a black woman or black women who would/have/are dating a white man, I would appreciate some advice on this matter. Thank you! I don't feel like I need to be "different" for a white guy, I have just never been approached or asked out by one as of yet, and I am always approached by black men so I've never really had to think about it that much. That's the only reason I'm asking.

Serious Question for Muslims, mainly Pakistani and Indian??? Is This True? Ok, I was told by my hair stylist that one of her friends who is Black and Christian was dating a Pakistani guy and they were in love to where he asked her to marry him. She said when his family found out, he was asked to go to Pakistan. There, he was beatin and forced to marry on of his cousins if he didn't denouce this black woman he was in love with. He wouldn't so they took his visa so that he couldn't come back to America. I was shocked about that. Also, I've heard about a few times that Pakistani people aren't ok to be with a black woman or black man. Which confused me, because My friend Usman is Pakistani, and my boyfriend is Indian, they both are muslim. Is it more of a religion thing, or race thing or both? Before I met my Indian boyfriend, my friend Usman and I were kinda dating, and he said his family didn't care who he dated, I met his mother, she was fine with me being black. My boyfriend said his parents are fine with me too. He's in Pakistan right now for work.

Pakistani and Indian Muslims??? Ok, I was told by my hair stylist that one of her friends who is Black and Christian was dating a Pakistani guy and they were in love to where he asked her to marry him. She said when his family found out, he was asked to go to Pakistan. There, he was beatin and forced to marry on of his cousins if he didn't denouce this black woman he was in love with. He wouldn't so they took his visa so that he couldn't come back to America. I was shocked about that. Also, I've heard about a few times that Pakistani people aren't ok to be with a black woman or black man. Which confused me, because My friend Usman is Pakistani, and my boyfriend is Indian, they both are muslim. Is it more of a religion thing, or race thing or both? Before I met my Indian boyfriend, my friend Usman and I were kinda dating, and he said his family didn't care who he dated, I met his mother, she was fine with me being black. My boyfriend said his parents are fine with me too.

Is it a sin for black and white people to marry? I am 16 and I am white. I have fallen hard for this guy, but he is black. I strongly believe in God and I am a Christian. The guy I like is always talking about how bad he wants to be with me and he is so sweet and makes me so happy. I didn't tell my mom about how I like him, but i have brought up a few times if she thought it was wrong for a black and white person to date. I told my mom tonight that he and I were gonna meet each other at the movies this weekend to watch a movie and she didn't like that at all. She was like what if someone you know see's you and thinks ya'll are dating? She is not racist, she just thinks you should be with your own race. My parents would absolutely flip if I told them I was dating a black guy. I don't know what to do! I'm crazy about him and I'm really falling for him.. What do I do? Is it a sin? Someone please give me some opinions.

Would Joe jonas date a black girl? Would he date a black girl? I pretty much look like my avatar. If you think he might not because of the whole cultural difference thing, i'm a christian and all my friends tell me I act like a white girl, cause i'm part english (british, no accent) Thanks for all your help, Annie* I just want to know if black girls are his type, Thanks, much appreciated

How do I convince my grandparents and aunt that marrying a white man will be okay when I am a black woman? I am currently dating a white man who is a year older than me. My grandparents and aunt (who I consider my real parents) seem to treat him as if he is a little slow, when he is not or as if they do not feel comfortable around him. For instance, whenever he comes over to my house, especially around the summer at family reunions, everyone stares and laughs and does not introduce themselves. I have to make the introduction and when I do, they just stare through him. One of my family members at the family reunion laughed in front of him and made reference that he was white... I felt so bad. I know he feels uncomfortable about this, but he always tells me that he loves me. I never thought that my grandparents and aunt ever had a problem with white people. I grew up in an all-white neighborhood, attended a school with a population of 95% of the kids there being all white; with a few blacks, Indians, and hispanics. All I have known are white people...in fact, my stepmother is a white woman. I do not live with my parents because my father told me that he no longer wanted me. So, the issue, obviously since I am living with my grandparents and my aunt is with them... the problem is convincing them all that things will be okay. My grandparents and aunt never seemed to have a problem with me having white friends over or hanging out at the mall with them, so I never pressumed that all of this would go down! They have always treated all of my white friends as if they were a part of my family (at least that is what it seemed). I DO have some white people in my family as well. My grandparents and aunt have always told me to marry a man who treats me with respect, but when I brought home a white man, it was like to my aunt that I disowned my race. She said that 'I was only dating a white man, because I felt insecure about myself and that there are black men that know how to treat a black woman right.' I told my aunt," Then why aren't YOU married at all or married to a black man?! and she said nothing!" She always talks about how when she was my age how she dated a black man, but things never worked out! However, I do have a lot of black friends and hang around all of my family members who are mostly black.... I just never found the right black man for me. Some of my cousins said that they were not too surprised with me because I always acted too proper and that I was always so book-smart! When I dated a black man before he was just too loud, over controlling, and treated me like I was his DOG.... So, I was like, "Hell, no, honey, this is not working out... so, we split." I am a very quiet, conservative person. My black friends at school seem to feel the same way about things, such as it is okay to be friends with white people, but talking about marriage is another thing. I am just about to graduate college this year and my boyfriend has already graduated last year. What are some suggestions in dealing with my situation and convincing my family that he is a good man and that they should learn to accept him for who he is (and not because they only see his color)? I was really shocked because my folks are Christian and have always raised me to have an opened mind about things, so I thought perhaps now they are not so Christian as what I thought. It breaks my heart, but if things do not work out I do not want to tell him it was because my family does not accept white people, when in fact like I said before, I DO have white people in my family. It is really odd the way things work out in my family. It just seems as though they are okay with the Mexicans and other races, but still convince me to marry only blacks. What should I do? Oh... my aunt says she likes him, but then says that she has other reasons for not wanting me to marry him... the way she says it is because he is only white. She never discusses the details when I ask her about her opinions. I think that she has a problem admitting about her true prejudices and how she has mixed feelings towards them. Sorry about the novel... I just wanted to provide you guys with enough information.

Christian guys: am I too extreme for you?? So, I'll get straight to the point. I'm a Christian, teen, music freak, and someone who's not afraid to speak her mind. Thing is, I'm VERY involved in my faith (protestant...) and I won't 'give myself away' until marriage. I'm a spirit-filled pentacostal chick. I'm a republican. I'm a debator. I love rock. And don't even tell me that I can't like it b/c of my faith. I didn't say I liked Black Sabbath, ok? So, here's the question again: am I too extreme for you? It's not that I care....I just wanna know how good my chances are of ever dating another Christian. Thanks!~Indie G Oh, and I will NEVER compromise my faith for anyone. There. That's about it. lol Geez. That all seems extremely egotistical. Well, I'm usually quiet and shy around people.......so attitude comes out when I type I suppose. lol

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What is wrong with this sentence? I'm a black gay christian, looking for same? For some reason when I posted this on the christian dating web site, only white gay closed christians hit on me. OH, I should add, married white gay christians only responded. Mike, I didn't say it was you. I love your white azz.....we still on for next week baby, show me some lovin

Do Jewish men like black women? I had a crush on one of my professors who was Jewish, not only was he handsome but his smarts were attractive as well. I've always had a thing for Jewish guys but I don't know how common JM/BW relationships are? One of my friends married a Jewish man & they live in New Jersey. Would me being a Christian be a problem? Do you think a Jewish guy would consider dating a nice looking black girl?

Interracial Couple (Indian and Black)...Can it last? I'm an black woman (American) dating an Indian (Pakistani-American) man. So far our relationship is great but lately I've been getting some pretty negative feedback from friends and family. My friends say things like "you don't speak punjabi or anything like that...how are you going to relate to his family in the future???" and other ignorant comments. Usually, I just laugh and explain that everyone speaks English so things are going to be just fine. We're both Christian so...religion is not an issue either. His family thinks that he'll never be able to relate to my family because "although his skin is dark, he isn't black!". That's exactly what his mom told him. What's your opinion? In our case, I kinda feel like "love will conquer all" but, do you think this relationship will last? We get along so well and don't have any major problems, but I fear that our families will eventually get in the way if we decide to move in together, get married, or anything serious like that...

I am black and the only woman that I truly loved was a white woman. Is that wrong? Eight years ago when I was in college, I loved this white girl named Heidi. I have dated numerous black women, numerous white women, and numerous hispanic women but I loved none of them but one white girl named Heidi. We both came from high middle class families and had nice vehicles. It turned out that I graduated from college but she dropped out. People say I look like Tiger Woods because I am part Irish and she looked like Christina Aguilera because she was blonde and part Hungarian. I bought her everything she ever wanted but she broke up with me for no apparent reason. We enjoyed sex only four times in our seven month relationship. Now she's a flight attendant for American Airlines and I am a consultant for AT&T. It seemed like a match made in heaven. I never cheated on her and I always bought her the things she asked for from The Limited and American Eagle. She said age was the reason for the breakup. I was 22 and she was 19. I loved her because she was sweet and cute and she was a real white girl that didn't try to act "black" and I was her first and only black guy on record. We said we were going to name our children Christian and Samantha. Is it possible that she chickened out because of my race? To this day, I always wonder why but I have gotten over her.

Bibically, can a black and a white be together in a relationship? If you are a Christian, is it right if you're white to be dating or be married to a black person?

Does anyone know who designed Anne Hathaways Black suit in Devil wears Prada? Its the black skirt suit she wears towards the end of the film when Nigel and Andy share a champagne toast before she goes on the date with Christian? Here is the best pic I could find: http://www.wildaboutmovies.com/images_2/DevilWearsPradaAnneHathaway1.jpg http://shrinetoactors.today.com/files/2009/03/devil-wears-prada-172.jpg http://www.cinemademerde.com/Devil_Wears_Prada-duo.gif If anyone has any info, the designer, something similar, any ideas i would love to hear them. Thanks.

I have a date with a black lady? I got a date with this nice young lady tonight. We are going to a restaurant called Scores. Its a nice restaurant on the upscale side. I really like this girl, and I want to make a good first impression. Which outfit should I wear for my date tonight? option 1 - Red/Black Fubu Jersey (Dirty South Edition), a pair of black starched jeans, and some limited edition black/red fubu hi-tops, and a red do-rag option 2 - ralph lauren polo, christian dior jeans, blue kangol hat, my all white fubu sneakers option 3 - Red Mike Vick Jersey, Red Dickie Pants, red blazer, Red Chuck Taylors, Red Bandana around my head, and a wallet chain option 4- leather jacket, black turtleneck, black slacks, black dress shoes, Black Fubu fitted What do you think? I'm trying my best to accommodate this black woman. I wanna dress my best and impress her. I thought she'd like one of those outfits. Sarah, good answer. Thanks.

Where can I find a nice looking single Christian man? I have been alone for some time now and I am wanting to find someone I can start dating and hanging out with. I'm looking for a man between the ages of 25-42, is very prosperous, and kind. Loves children and dogs. And I prefer he'd be a Christian. Native American, Black/African, OR Hispanic. Does anyone know where I can start looking?

How do you deal with an overly critical Christian family on abortion? Me and my boyfriend had sex and I got pregnant. I don't know why because I was on birth control and didn't miss the pill once. Anyways I'm 14. My family overly-traditional and christian. I'm black and my boyfriend is a Native American. My parents don't like interracial relationships and believe all the stupid stereotypes(like because of his race his parents must be alcoholics and stupid stuff.) We have been dating for two years and they never found out. I don't want to start any drama but I think I might have to and tell my parents so that I can get an abortion. I don't know what to say to convince them(they are anti abortion) I don't know what to do or say. I am so scared help me PLEASE. Yes my boyfriend is paying for it. And no I'm not a slut. I had sex with someone I love and I don't regret it. I just wished I would have used a different birthcontrol pill. Adorehim:I don't feel any love or emotion towards this fetus. All I know is that I don't want to ruin me and my boyfriends life. I'm only 6 weeks so the "baby" doesn't know it exists. I don't want it.

Why do Black football players always have white girlfriends? Ashley Cole with Girls aloud singer Cheryl Tweedy Sol Campbell with interior designer Fionna Barratt, before that he was into a 44 yr old White MILF, Kelly Hoppens which almost ruined his career as a footballer. In the Frenchie side, it's Thierry Henry, Christian Kerembeau Jermain Defoe, the Tottenham Hotspurs player once dated David beckham's sister and has another whitec chick in tow. Even the imports from Africa, like Nigerian player John Obi Mikel is found his WAG in English league. It's not that I am against interracial relationships. I am myself half-Asian, but somehow I feel any "pattern" in such kind of relationships is wrong, because it undermines the worth of your own race when you mix down into others just for the hell of it.

Black Americans girls,as Christian Blacks, would you rather date a Muslim Black man or a Christian White man? PS ;I am Muslim biracial (lighter than the Teal'C pic) And please explain your choice in a few words Thanks PS ;I am Muslim biracial (lighter than the Teal'C pic)

Would Nick Jonas Date a Black Girl /and what is looking for? im 5'8 im christian girl & i really want 2 know..NO MEAN COMMENT PLEASE Nessa Rae jonas peace&love The reason im askin cause people said that THE JONAS BROTHERS won't date a black girl. so i was wondrein & my avator is a black girl tanxs 4 tellin me when the next live chat is

White men: do you notice different black girls? Hello, I'd just like to know if you guys notice the black girls who aren't loud, obnoxious and ghetto. Do you notice the ones that don't wear provocative clothing. I’m just wandering because many people seem to classify all black girls in that category. I'm not like that at all I’m very modest, quiet and shy I wear nothing but classy cute skirts because I’m a Christian and I’m friendly. I’m really not the average black girl...some say because I have naturally long hair, white girls teased me about it all the time in high school because its very unusual I guess... keen nose and small lips, no huge bottom. ANY WAY. I'm just curious do you all (white men) even notice those types of girls. not even date, BUT notice or do you classify them with the rest... I think white men are nice I think they are gentlemen. I wouldn't mind dating the right one.(black people I love brothaz just asking a question don't get defensive puleeze!) please, I don’t care, I don’t want to sound desperate or offensive to any race just curious right now and wanted to know. Thanks so much for your help! may God bless

My parents don't aprove of a guy I'm dating just because he's black.? I'm 17, almost 18, and I think that I am old enough and mature enough to decide who I can and cannot date. We're Christians and my parents interpret that the BIble says that "to each his own" means that whites with whites, blacks with blacks, etc. But I have never felt that was right. I REALLY like this guy but I don't like the tension it's creating in my family. My dad refuses to even meet my b/f. I just don't understand how he can't accept it or even be courteous to him if he hasn't even met him yet. I'd really appreciate any advise you could give me! I talked to them again last night and I think it might have made matters worse. Now they're saying that it's ok if we're just friends but that as long as I live in their house, I cannot date him. They've threatened to kick me out and they told me that neither me or my b/f would ever be welcome in their house if our relationship continues. If nothing else, this offended me more than ANYTHING. I started packing last night also. It's not just about my b/f now it's about the fact that they could so easily just right me out of their lives. I think that if that's the way they want it then that's how its gonna be

i have a dating problem? I am a catholic boy, and i really like this girl i call ReRe but her name is Arielle, and i want to be her bf, but shes a christian and my mom doesn't want me to and shes also black to , and i am white we have been friends forever, and i really like her, but my mom wont let me date christians girls only catholic, so is there anyone that can help or if they also have that problem

Christians and interracial marriage/dating? It really surprises me sometimes to hear where Christians stand on interracial marriage/dating. Some say that whites should marry whites and blacks should marry blacks. Some say that interracial marriage is OK as long as it's not between black and whites. Some say that as long as their partner is a fellow Christian, then it doesn't matter what color their skin is. Christians what is your take on this?

Christian guys: Am I too extreme for you?? So, I'll get straight to the point. I'm a Christian, teen, music freak, and someone who's not afraid to speak her mind. Thing is, I'm VERY involved in my faith (protestant...) and I won't 'give myself away' until marriage. I'm a spirit-filled pentacostal chick. I'm a republican. I'm a debator. I love rock. And don't even tell me that I can't like it b/c of my faith. I didn't say I liked Black Sabbath, ok? So, here's the question again: am I too extreme for you? It's not that I care....I just wanna know how good my chances are of ever dating another Christian. Thanks!~Indie G Oh, and I'll never compromise my faith for anyone. Yep. That's about it. lol Full of myself? Ha. I just got told I had no self-esteem. Thank you. I'm just tryin to ask the question w/o beatin around the bush. :) Again. I am NOT trying to be prideful. I'm a short, weird, unpopular idiot. There. Ya happy? I'm just stating who I am. I'm not gonna sit there and lie. I got teased every single day at school this year by popular people. All I need is for people to think I'm egotistical. I sit in the back row of every class and don't speak. :( haha I didn't say I DIDN'T like black sabbath now, did i? lol

Do Jewish men like black women? I had a crush on one of my professors who was Jewish, not only was he handsome but his smarts were attractive as well. I've always had a thing for Jewish guys but I don't know how common JM/BW relationships are? One of my friends married a Jewish man & they live in New Jersey. Would me being a Christian be a problem? Do you think a Jewish guy would consider dating a nice looking black girl?

Must it all be black and white? I believe in God. I gave my spirit over to him at a young age. When I started going through puberty I realized I had an attraction to other men. Obviously this is a problem with "Believers". But I know I didn't wish this upon myself or anything. It's just the way I am. Sure I could date, marry and sleep with women but I wouldn't be happy and neither would they. So why would I subjugate us both to that? I also recently purchased a Ouija Board (GASP!). I just don't understand why everything in the Christian community is so black and white. It's either good or it's evil. Why can't it be both? Why is it so impossible for people to accept the fact that parts of the bible could have been added as a means to control the general population? I mean none of us really KNOW, and I wish more people could just admit that. I have prayed many times asking "If this is wrong, please find a way to show me and I'll do my best to change". But so far I have not gotten any sort of clear sign about any of it. So that leads me to believe that nothing I'm doing is as horrible as some would have me think. I personally believe God loves all of us, and isn't going to punish us for such trivial things. I know I love and believe in him and my dating a man or using a "talking board" isn't ever going to change that. He will always come first in my heart. Can't that be enough? Note: What I meant when I said "Can't it be both?" is that, why can't things be used for good or evil? Much like a gun. You can use a gun to protect yourself and your loved ones or you can go out and kill people with it.

Christian parent!!!! Help!!!? I am bisexual. I always knew that I liked girls when I was a little girl. I even had a girlfriend. Growing up I dated guys and now I'm dating a female who I love very much. It's just that I feel like I'm living a double life because I haven't told my mother. My mother is not only an black woman, but she also Christian and Jamaican. So I kinda have 3 strikes against me. I dont think she will stop speaking to me but I fear our relationship will change after she finds out. Plus, this is the first female I've dated since childhood so I'm starting to feel the pressure that a lesbian couple can face just for loving eachother. This is all very new to me and my girl is sooo supportive. I recognize the hatred that a lot of ppl have towards homosexuals and it saddens me. It saddens me to think that someone is so disgusted by who I love that they dont want their child around me. If anyone can help that has maybe dealt with this already it would be greatly appreciated. I just need some advice, or tell me how you dealt with it.

dating and my parents.... My parents (mainly my mom), are freeking out about me wanting to date. ive been bugging them about this for over a year, year and a half. My mom says im to immature to date becuase ive been fighting with her lately. she said that becuese im fighting with her she would never late me get near a "young women". She also said that this is is the path im going to have to take if i want to date. supervised group activities, unsupervised group activities, group dates, and then maybe go on a date. Im almost a eagle scout, black belt, i'm in my churches praise team, ect... These are there rule's for when i start dating they have to know her they have to know her parents i have to know her parents I have to be good friends with her she has to be a christian i have to ask my parents if i can date her i have to ask her parents if i can date her I can understand some of these but i think some of them are a bit extreme. p.s. im a guy, 14 about to turn 15, and in high school. p.p.s. i almost went out with this one girl last year but she said she didnt want to go out cues she didn't think she was ready to date.my parents were fine with this.

Why did they delete these questions? Are the monitors crazy? Ladies who dont date black men, have you ever saw a black man that could cause you to break your rule? Asked by Black Atheist - 0 answers - Singles & Dating - 6 minutes ago - (Question has been removed) Christians, How do you determine who's a "real" Christian? Asked by Black Atheist - 30 answers - Religion & Spirituality - 4 days ago - (Question has been removed) Even though people complain, the final decision is up to the monitors about me http://www.listentocharlie.com

White christian women, which type are you least likely to date and why? A white Christian or a Black Atheist? Why would you choose the White Christian? Is it morals? God will for give you for ANYTHING you do? Jesus died for your dirt? You're taught that you're born bad? Is it race? More deadly sun rays will cause white people's offspring to be in danger if they dont gain darker skin I prefer a Black Atheist woman anyway about me http://www.listentocharlie.com

race religion in dating? Asian / Black or white. Muslim / christian / catholic Should these things make a differnce when two people connect

Is anyone in here black and if so have you dated an indian girl? How did it work out for u and how far did u go. Did you have trouble with parents, religion, vagetarianism, etc. I have an indian gf and shes vegitarian, and hindi, while im a christian and a meatlover and black. I really like her and want to see if its practical to take things further since we're both gonna be doctors in the future. Im in college now and shes the same age as me. so any thoughts?

Why aren't Black-on-White crimes considered hate crimes? A young White couple by the name of Channon Christian, 21 & Christopher Newsom, 23 went out on a date. They were carjacked, kidnapped, tortured, gang raped, & then murdered, by 3 black men & 1 black woman. The woman (Channon Christian) was gang raped orally, vaginally, & anally. And both of her breasts were cut off, before she was killed. This crime occured on January 7, 2007, exactly 10 months ago. Five suspects have been arrested & charged in the case, but none of them are being charged with a hate crime. Now, if this was White people that did that to black people, Al Stupid Sharpton would say "it's a hate crime", but you don't hear anyone saying that about this couple that was murdered. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DwoKQq3oHko http://sullivan-county.com/wcva/liberal_racism.htm A story like this doesn't meet the agenda of the left wing media. A left wing politically correct world where the White man is always the bad guy. Their story doesn't seem to matter, unlike the Jena 6. Since they were worthless white trash they aren't CNN worthy.

WHat advice can you give a black male who wants to date Chinese/Taiwanese woman? I know that Asians have negative views of blacks based on what they see in the news and in the media, and some Asian women think black men won't tkae care of them or their babies, but what advice can you give a black male who wants to date a Chinese or Taiwanese woman, either in the Us on in China/Taiwan. I'm a Christian, not a thug or a creep or drug-lord and I will treat a woman right-I will treat her like a queen.The woman I meet would be a woman of God. Please let me know. I'm sorry-I should have said some Asians have negative views of blacks.

Black Cousin will not give up trying to date other race tell what do? I am black don't get wrong my cousin like other races i tell him stick to his own kind he is not ugly. but he like white asain and etc. and i told him none of them like black men the ones that are the left over that what my aunt call them and the reason people date outside there race because the women in there race to not want them. so they figure that people in other race will take them but it does not work that way i am not racist i love everybody i am a christian but i think a black wome will do him good. i told him he not Polow Da Don and if he want a hot girl from another race he got to be Rich and have lots of money. see me I won the Lottery last year 25 million i am about to get married. he 21 still single and i don't want him half to be along waiting on some girl that is never going to come to him i just told him Get a Black women and be done but he won't listen i guess he got to give out the hard way. i want him to be happy like me. if the grammer is wrong i am sorry Sorry about the spelling and i am not racist i just want him to be happy

i think my girlfriend is a transgender. how do i know for sure shes not? my gf joked about being 1 y-day and it freaked me out. i am a straight black christian man i only date people born women (born in a female body) not those who think that they are women and changed. i believe god makes no mistakes so please don't try and convince me otherwise just answer my question. thank u me and her have had sex if she is she's post op. her stuff looks natural though she has a clit and gets wet but not really wet and she uses the bathroom alot again i'm not looking for judgement just help my beliefs are not @ question here just if she is wat she protrays. please answer my question and my question only. thank u let me be blunt she said she was joking after 20 mins of claiming she was a guy and when i freaked then she said she was joking. now again thank u for your answers but please hold your judgement about having sex cause i was a virgin for 18 years till my virginity was stolen from me. i'm 19 and just starting back NOW ANSWER MY DAMN QUESTION!!!!!!!! i'm srry i am looking for tips on how 2 see if she is or not for example the person who said they don't have a menstural cycle is close 2 best or the guy who said the wetness and peeing doesn't mean anything if your not helping to ANSWER the question u should comment instead thank u

Are there bibilical references that say races should not intermarry? Dinner conversation last night partially consisted of whether or not whites and blacks should date, marry and have kids. This family is a Christian family who say they have no other "problems" (in other words they aren't prejudice -- EXCEPT for this) with black people, just that the two skin colors shouldn't be mixed. Is this in the Bible, that races shouldn't mix? (Beside God saying that the Israelites should marry other Israelites. That was a religious issue, that they shouldn't marry pagans and idol-worshipers, not a race thing.) Wow! I'm glad I got 100% good answers (that actually answer my question). I was slightly afraid I'd get people berating and everything, which seems to happen to anyone asking an honest question relating to religion. (Usually there's one or two answers that are just uncalled for, you know?) Thank you for the examples. I think a lot of people forget that the people in the Bible aren't all white! For some reason that's the picture people get, I guess just the world we live in. Movies like 'Jesus of Nazareth' (that's the only one I can think of at the moment) incorrectly portray Jesus (and all the disciples and other people) as blue-eyed and blonde haired people! So not true!

I went on a date with someone who dosnt like black people...? I have liked this guy for a long time, and we finnaly went on date lastnight. Well He made a comment about not likeing black people (one person imperticular, who is a good friend of mine). I was in shock, and the friend who hooked us up knew about this, and failed to tell me. I in NO WAY am against black people, my brother,nephew, and other family members of mine are black, and i love them to peices. I dont know what to do...i dont know how to feel. He is in my religion (christian) and I reallly was starting to like him.

What do i do about this? i am really in love with this girl but she is Muslim. she hasn't always been really religious, but all of the sudden she started seeing signs. her best fried who is christian had a dream were the Muslim devil( i think it is some kind of genie)was asking about my girlfriend.my girlfriend was scared because her mother told her that the Muslim devil would possess and punish those who did not go by the way of the muslim. and since i am a black christian, we are not supposed to date. so she believes the only way we can be safe is by one of us converting to a the others religion......i have no idea what to do because i really love her and do not want to put her in any danger, but i dont know how my family would feel about me converting to a different religion

What do you think of religious beliefs being taught as historical and social facts I only have experience of Southern Baptists so can't comment on Baptists in general. I lived in South Georgia for 3 years and was very surprised at some of the views and actions of some Baptists in the community. I enrolled my son in a well respected "christian" school.Being naive I was unaware that it was a Baptist school and what that entailed. History books started with Adam and Eve, women had to suffer the pain of childbirth because of Eve eating that damn apple, dinosaurs either didn't exist or the scientific dating of anything older than approx 3000 was incorrect or even falsified by a conspiracy of scientists supporting Darwin,( Darwin was an uneducated, self serving fantasist) no mention of slavery in America, Strangely there was no mention of the holocaust in the section covering Germany during the 2nd World War.There was something on every page that made me gasp. I had no problem with being taught certain subjects in his religious education class Or even him being given the "alternative" view re evolution. But certain parts of the book were verging on racism. EG christians brought enlightenment to the "savages of Africa" There was only one black student amongst 3000 pupils who "strangely" was a brilliant quarter-back. The final straw was Halloween. I would have disagreed but accepted them not celebrating this event but my son who was only ten came home from school extremely upset. He had been shown a tape about Charles Manson and told that he was in league with the devil and by celebrating Halloween people were associating them. He was also told that devil worshippers sacrificed babies at midnight in local cemeteries. All this vile nonsense was taught in his religious studies class the really worrying thing was when I talked to neighbours about this they were surprised I had a problem with it. This school/church wasn't a small backwoods place. It was in a major town with a large congregation. They took children from 6 weeks old to 18 years and the kids..of course went to church there and took part in summer camps,sports etc.No wonder the Baptist belt has such insular views as the kids live and breathe the baptist way of life from birth to leaving High School. Needless to say we took our son out after one term and put him in the state system where church and state are seperated To Praise Jebus....if you are saying that I am posting my beliefs as fact- you are doing exactly the same..You are stating that in YOUR opinion you should not post BELIEFS as FACTS. That belief is only your opinion-not a fact. I took my son out of that school after one term and sent him to a state school. He attended another church as well. Mitoeve...didnt ask you to read or answer..sorry if you are unable to read a long piece of prose. best just stick to short questions

Dating Dilemna? I am interested in dating a very nice man - and i believe he is interested in me. He is 46 years old, never been married, he's a christian and active in his church - a very good guy. A professional engineer. We work at the same company. I on the other hand - have been married twice - terrible marriages - ended up with herpes from my second husband - i have three kids that are good kids - but my life has been very dramatic - my family (parents, brothers & sisters) are all professionals as am I - but without the drama - I feel like I'm the black sheep - this guy would fit in perfect with my family. My question is this - should I tell him all of my past right away - just to be fair to him - I feel like I've screwed up so much in the past - that I don't deserve a good man - we both go to the same church also.

girl who wanted to know why blacks are portrayed bad.? i like all people. there are good and bad of all!!! my daughter is white as am i. she dated many scuzzy drug dealer losers!! she did date one nice black guy who was christian. many black people hold us whites accountable for the past.slavery stuff and all. i would never have treated anyone like slaves were treated. but today 2006, many blacks choose to still talk ghetto. not proper english. this makes them look bad. we even have whites doing it too.!! i myself look at tv, i feel sorry that most shows are mostly white people on it. i think how black people must feel. iam sorry for all of this. but you cant judge all of us by some stupid ignorant whites!!! one of my best friends is black. it just seems like many blacks donot try to better them selves. hence the steriotypes??? my daughter is now married to a very nice white man who provides and loves her. thats what i expect from any man. i do feel that when races mix , that kids suffer, they are often picked on. iam half caucasin(white) half colombian indian. iam 40. i was picked on so bad in school. i was different. this is why i say races shoudnt mix. people can be soooo mean!!!! now that iam grown everyone likes me. but i hope the young black girl who asked a question on here sees this. iam a christian. god is love. i feel bad mmany times for black people. i think mexicans are now picked on and talked about way more than blacks. all i can say is get an education, rise above, dont blame anyone for the past& be happy. the word neggor means a bad person. well there are white, black spanish, etc all kinds of so called neggors!! i dont really care for that word. it seems foreign to me. been so long since i heard it!! well good luck girl. take care. the question was not really one... a young lady on yahoo answers had a question..i was answering waht she said. she said why are black people always looked at negatively?? or something to that affect. as i was typing an answer to her...i lost her page!! /question , something popped up. i hope she gets this. not trying to offend any one. ok!! FIRST OFF I DIDNT START THIS SOME YOUNG GIRL DID. AND AT MY SCHOOL IN 1980 THERE WAS BLACK, WHITE AND ME!! BLACKS ARE PICKED ON IN SOCIETY. YES I DO HAVE A BLACK FRIEND, I HAD TO CALL HER MY BLACK FRIEND SO THAT U WOULD KNOW THAT I HAVE FRIENDS OF ALL COLORS!!! IAM NOT RACIST!!!! MY BROTHER IS!! IAM NOT. HE IS ALL WHITE. I KNOW WAHT IT FEELS LIKE TO BE DIFFERENT. EVEN TODAY WHEN I WALK IN SOME ALL WHITE CHURCHES ETC, I FEEL WEIRD , LIKE I DONT BELONG.LIKE A MISFIT!!! IAM PART SPANISH, BUT SOUND LIKE A COUNTRY GIRL. PEOPLE DONT MAKE FUN OF ME ANYMORE, BUT I STILL FEEL WHAT IT WAS LIKE.!!! MY BIRTH NAME WAS /IS MARIA CLAUDIA OCHOA!!! NOW OCHOA (O-CHO-AH) IS MORE COMMON, BUT NOT BACK IN RURAL NORTHCAROLINA FROM 1965 -1980:S!!! IAM SORRY IF I HURT ANYONE. I REALLY DO LIKE ALL RACES. WHEN I MEET SOMEONE I JUDGE THEM ON THEIR ACTIONS. NOT COLOR!! I DO FEEL BAD THAT TV IS ALL FOR GUYS!! MAINLY. ITS A GUY WORLD.AND WHITE WORLD. WELL USA ANYWAY. SPORTS ON ALL WEEKEND!!NAKED CHICK

Can I get some Christian Advice? Something awful has happened within my family. My brother has stopped going to mass and has started calling himself an atheist. Ever since then he's started listening to weird music, and putting product in his hair, and he's having these red growths with white dots on his face. I know he's only 13, but I'm worried he's already on his way to hell. All he talks about is logic and science, and the other day he was even talking about dinosaurs walking around millions of years ago, which is impossible. I think he's in the occult now? When we locked him in his room to confront him about why he thinks there is no God and that the Earth is millions of years old, he started talking about witchcraft, like carbon dating? And relativity? ANd black holes? We fear Satan has taken him, what should we do? He's my baby brother, but I think we need to send him to Jesus Camp?

I really need some Christian Advice for my family??? Something awful has happened within my family. My brother has stopped going to mass and has started calling himself an atheist. Ever since then he's started listening to weird music, we found this "backstreetboys" cd in his room? We played it backwords and heard messages from Satan.And he's putting product in his hair, and he's having these red growths with white dots on his face. I know he's only 13, but I'm worried he's already on his way to hell. All he talks about is logic and science, and the other day he was even talking about dinosaurs walking around millions of years ago, which is impossible. I think he's in the occult now? When we locked him in his room to confront him about why he thinks there is no God and that the Earth is millions of years old, he started talking about witchcraft, like carbon dating? And relativity? ANd black holes? We fear Satan has taken him, what should we do? He's my baby brother, but I think we need to send him to Jesus Camp? 1 day ago -

Why do many non-Christian beliefs seem to make more sense than Christian and Atheist beliefs? On the Christian spectrum, the Bible is the word of God and everything else Satan is involved some how. On the Atheist spectrum, nothing exists and everything comes and goes without any afterthought. But many Buddhist, Pagan, Ba'hai, and various other beliefs that aren't Christian nor Atheist seem to make more sense. They've dated back to the ancient times, they seem MORE accurate and don't seem edited, more so passed down. For instance, many African/South American tribes without outside influence seem more connected to the higher power. Generally they are happier and haven't been invaded by people who claim to try and "save" and "civilize" them. And many people who follow these various beliefs generally don't feel superior to others and believe in tolerance. Its like a more shades of gray than black and white like many fundamentalist Christians and hardcore Atheists tend to be. Why is that? I'm not saying all of Christianity is incorrect or wrong, and I'm not saying in the possibility of nothing and that atheists are all bad/wrong. But what I'm trying to get at here is if you look at things from a historical perspective as well as the fact the Bible has been re-edited however there is no hardcore proof there is no God, it seems black and white just keeps fighting over nothing. I mean no one really truly knows what's out there, you may BELIEVE something, I have my BELIEFS, but I don't KNOW for sure what will come. No human truly does. There's some things we can't fathom or explain. Okay, what I'm trying to say, is that you have your very hardcore Christians who feel they have to "save" everyone and your hardcore atheists who feel they have to demean anyone with any sort of spiritual belief system (and yes they ARE out there I have a professor whose like that). I'm saying is that other various religions and beliefs don't seem to be fighting about it like they do.

I dont know what to do, my parents wont let me go to prom with a black guy? Im a sophomore and he is a senior and he is black and i am white, we are JUST friends, and he needed a date and he asked me to go with him, i THOUGHT that my parents were reasonable and christian, and woudlnt discriminate, and i told him i would go with him to prom, i know i shoudlnt have told him i would go with him before i asked my parents, but they have never done anything like this and i had no clue they would tell me i coudlnt go to prom with a guy just because he is black, im so upset how am i supposed to tell him i cant go with him because he is black?

Is it true that Obama has told many lies and nobody cares? Want a source? Read his books! Most of it is in there!

why is it so hard to meet a well rounded Christian African American female in Baltimore City? I am a 45 year old African American male, I have children from two previous relationships before giving my life to the Lord. I've been trying to find that special someone to settle down with (Marry) and even though the ratio of women to men in the black community is about 5 females to every male I'm finding it difficult to find a sister that's developed emotionally and spiritually mature to maintain and advance in a relationship in Baltimore City. I'm wondering if I should move or start dating out of my race these things has crossed my mind!

The "Christian appearance"? I am a 32 year old female. I have short hair and I dye it black. I have 1 tattoo on my shoulder and another around my ankle. My belly button is pierced. I dress trendy and up to date with fashion. I wear makeup, I get manicures, pedicures and my eye liner is tattooed on. By people who don't know me well, I've been called "edgey" or "wild" By people who are close to me and know me very well, I am called "A Christian", "In tune with God", "faithful" and ANYTHING BUT "wild" Sometimes people think Christians should look a certain way. I say it's all in the way they live their life. All the other stuff is just a personal preference in style. Wouldn't you agree? Be honest now.

Where can I go to met a nice single christian man in KY? I know there is someone out there but where is he? I've been in Louisville a while and still have had no luck finding a good black man. I just want a date damn. I'm pretty and have it together more than 75% of the woman my age. Please if anyone wants to go out with me to check out the fellas and ur in louisville let me know. I'm down to club or whatever.