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Need a bit of Christian dating advice? I have been dating my girlfriend for six moths now. I vaguely remember hearing from somewhere that as a Christian in the dating world, it is important to know if the person your dating is a virgin or not. (I could be COMPLETELY wrong on this) I have no intentions of having any sexual relation until i am married but still, is this important to know? And if it is - how would i go about finding out? Do i just bluntly ask? I try to include God in everything i do which would include dating and i merely want to do what's right. Thank you, and God bless.

Christian dating advice? There is this really nice Christian guy who is also one of my closest friends, although we rarely get see each other (he lives about three hours away and I work three jobs). Last year around this time we were talking and he decided to come visit me for his birthday and I felt inclined to go along with it. During the visit I was ill and clearly not looking very appealing but he let me know that he thought we should take our relationship further by dating each other exclusively. At the time I told him I didn't think it was the best idea because twice in the past he stated that he wanted to be with me and ended up cutting things off due to some petty things. A few months ago I called him and we began talking; we picked up as if we were never apart. I told him that I really missed him but he heard " I really love you". After we were talking for about a month it somehow was revealed that I said I missed him instead of loved him, not that I don't love him just not in love yet ( could be due to the distance and we don't see each other very often). I asked him if he was OK after finding out the truth and he said that he was but after I called him a couple of days later thinking that everything was fine; he said he thought it was best if we closed this door forever even though he loves me. I think it could have something to do with the delicacy of the male ego. I tried to reach him to talk things over, to no avail. At this point I still miss him which is normal, it's only been two months. I want to send a letter expressing my feelings; I do want to be with him and care about him deeply. From a Christian perspective is it wrong for the woman to be the one to contact the male in this case and try to move forward with our relationship? Any Christian advice is greatly appreciated.

Christian Dating Advice Needed. Please!!!!? Christian Dating Advice Needed. PLEASE? I'm in highschool. There is this guy that I've liked for a while and we chat on facebook every night. He is really nice, and fun to talk to. Well I've really started to like him... but last night I went to his profile, and it said he was an atheist!!!!!! I'm a Christian and I know that I should only date christians..... so I freaked. What do I do? I stop liking him right? We talk every single night. so if i stop talking to him........ that would seem.... odd. Because he is all: i love talking to you. Idk what to do. Please Help.

Teen Christian Dating Advice Please!? I am really looking for Christian views on this, just preferrably. Okay, for a while now, there has been this girl at my school who likes me and I do like her too. We have gotten to know each other alot and I am more than ready to ask her to be my girlfriend. She is so... I'm not sure. It just feels so much like we are so good for each other right now. But the biggest problem is spirituality. My mom's only concern is if she is a churchly Christian like me. We have never discussed her family's views of it at all, but from some other resources that I care not to mention, I have discovered that this girl's family may be Rastafarians. This is no problem for me because my closest cousins are of the same beliefs, yet they are the just as ordinary and down to earth as the next family. I have no problem with her family believing this way because they are a normal, loving family with common interests just as the average American family and even my own! But my mother cares so much more about the beliefs. I am very confused and hurt by how this may tear us apart in a potential relationship. Is this really wrong in God's eyes? I am so confused. Please offer Christian advice. Thank you... Im almost 14 btw.

Christian dating advice needed? No men at my church. Where can I find a good Christian man? Most of the guys in my church are already in relationships and no-one in my workplace has the same Christian beliefs as me.

christian dating advice? ive got a girlfriend who loves me and i really want the relationship to last a long time. if you are a Christian, please give me some advice...Thanks

Christian Dating advice?? Hello. I am 19 and will be 20 in August. For the longest time I have not been really too concerned about dating. I have had school, work, and other family concerns that have occupied most of my time. However, the more I see that I am the only one in my family that does not have someone, I start to get upset. I am from a small town, going to school in another small town, etc. and I am looking for a strong Christian guy. Do you have any suggestions of how to meet that special someone in a "non-Christian" environment? I should have reworded that a little better it seems. When I said "non-Christian" environment, I just meant that I do not attend a Christian school. Also, I do attend a very good church, and a young adult Sunday school class, but most are married or "taken".

I need Christian dating advice? Alright. Here's my problem (and i need a Christian's point of view on this): I made my girlfriend upset here lately. I feet downright terrible. I've asked both her and God for forgiveness and i know God has forgiven me but I'm not so sure about my girlfriend. She tells me "look, it's alright - i forgive you. There's no reason to be upset now. It's in the past" But no matter how much she tells me i still feel that she hasn't forgiven me (what i did wasn't anything too awful but it's enough to feel pretty guilty over) so it causes me to apologize more, making me feel like a neusance. How do i go about feeling forgiveness from another human being. I've cleared it with God and deep down i know my girlfriend has put it behind her but i don't FEEL that forgiveness. Please send advice if you have it. If not - pray for me please and may God bless you all in many ways,

I need some Christian dating advice? OK. I would like the view point of a Christian on this one. Me and my girlfriend are both Christians. We've been together for a little over 5 months now. Well, a few weeks back she thought i was cheating on her with like so many other girls. IT WASN'T TRUE. She didn't believe me for the longest and somehow she found out that it really wasn't true so she apologized like crazy and she wanted to get back together. I accepted her offer. How do you think God feels about this? Should i have said "no you didn't trust me. We're over" (i would forgive her in the sense of putting it behind us but not in the sense of getting back together in this scenario) OR did i do the right thing in taking her back? I really need to know how God would feel on this matter. if you have no advice then please pray for me so as that i may make good decisions in the future.

I need some Christian dating advice...how do you tell a guy you like him? Allow me to preface this with the fact that I'm 18 and have absolutely NO dating experience whatsoever. (Yes, I realize how embarrassing and strange this is). But now that I've started college, I've become acquainted with someone in my church group, and after a few weeks my feelings for him have become difficult to keep to myself. Can I just walk up to him one day and ask him out? Would it be too juvenile to ask through one of my friends (who also don't know of my feelings)? I want to ask one of the church elders for advice, but it seems like it would be a trivial waste of their time in comparison with other problems. Please help soon. He's not becoming any younger, uglier, or more single.

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Christian Dating Advice Needed. PLEASE? I'm in highschool. There is this guy that I've liked for a while and we chat on facebook every night. He is really nice, and fun to talk to. Well I've really started to like him... but last night I went to his profile, and it said he was an atheist!!!!!! I'm a Christian and I know that I should only date christians..... so I freaked. What do I do? I stop liking him right? We talk every single night. so if i stop talking to him........ that would seem.... odd. Because he is all: i love talking to you. Idk what to do. Please Help.

Christian(s): Christian Dating Advice? Hello everyone. I am a Christian man who is trying his best to live the way God wants him to live. I am not a perfect Christian, but I certianly want to live the way I should. I recently met a lady in my church. She is such a beautiful lady. She makes Haily Berry look bad. We went to work out together, and I think I weirded her out a little bit. Why? I teach music (classical) and at night I am a chorus member in the city Opera. She thought it was interesting, but differemt. Also, she told me that she could not let go of Hip Hop. Now, I have nothing against Hip Hop as an art form. However, some of the things they say in the music are anti - Christ. I did not tell her to much about this because we all have our own convictions. It has been a day or so, and she has not called me back. Should I pray for her and hope we can work things out, or just leave her alone? P.S. All our welcome to answer.

Single mom, Christian. Dating. Not sure if scripture is realistic and I'm feeling frustrated. Christian advice? I'm 31 years old and a single mom to a little boy. I've been single for over a year and a half now ever since my sons father left me and is dating a 20 year old. I'm feeling lonely and sexually frustrated now. I'm interested in dating someone who's recently asked me to coffee but I know that scriptually it would be wrong for me to date someone and then have sex with them without being married. I'm wondering how realistic this is considering my age and the fact that I'm already a mother. I want to be obedient to God and follow the right path but I'm feeling lonely and companionship would be nice. This man is an old friend. The divorced father of 2 children. He's not a Christian. He's agnostic. I'm envious of and depressed by my ex who has long-since moved on and is on his third young chick, in a relationship now. I'm starting to feel like time is running out for me. What if I want more children? Am I doomed to be celebate just because my ex left me and now I have to date and not have sex? Advice???

I need a bit of Christian dating advice? This is a two part question. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over 6 months now. I know that it is not a sin to simply have sexual desires, as all humans have them. But it's gotten to where I've been thinking about those desires a lot here lately and it's really building up. I don't want this to be a lustful relationship (not at all). Is thinking about sex itself a sin even though i've already made a promise to myself that i would not have sex until i was married. Which brings me to my second question - i rlly think my girlfriend could very well be the one i'll marry one day. Should i, being only the age of 17, be thinking about such things? Should the thought of marriage even cross my mind? please give advice if you can. God bless.

I need a bit of Christian dating advice (reposted)? This is a two part question. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for over 6 months now. I know that it is not a sin to simply have sexual desires, as all humans have them. But it's gotten to where I've been thinking about those desires a lot here lately and it's really building up. I don't want this to be a lustful relationship (not at all). Is thinking about sex itself a sin even though i've already made a promise to myself that i would not have sex until i was married. Which brings me to my second question - i rlly think my girlfriend could very well be the one i'll marry one day. Should i, being only the age of 17, be thinking about such things? Should the thought of marriage even cross my mind? please give advice if you can. God bless.

Christian dating advice...Am I overacting or giving up too easy? Boyfriend of 10 months & I attended a friends event and w/o telling me, he invited a few of his female friends. There were times when we were inches apart & these females greeted him, but he failed to introduce us. The next day I told him I felt hurt and disrespected by his lack of manners. He flipped dismissed my feelings, called me insecure & jealous. He doesn’t feel he has to introduce me to his friends, and if this same situation happened again, he still wouldn’t introduce us. However, he keeps calling saying he loves & wants to be with me & I shouldn’t give up on us. I am hurt that he didn’t introduce us, but even more hurt at his disregard for my feelings. If someone hurts you, and you tell them that they are hurt you, yet they continue to do it, then they don’t care about you or you feelings. I introduce him to my male friends so he can feel secure in what we have. I have nothing to lose, but his trust to gain by doing so. Trust isn’t something that just comes automatically. When I first met him my trust for him was balanced on scale, his actions made that scale go up or down. If he did untrustworthy things then my trust went down, if he did things to make me feel secure in what we shared then it went up. We have more ups than downs, but this is our first big fight and a major down. He told me it was nothing, and doesn’t feel a need to prove or explain anything to me as far as this situation goes. I will sacrifice & compromise a lot to make this relationship work, but not my dignity or respect. I don’t want to end the relationship, but can’t deal with someone that has total disregard for me & my feelings. Is it possible to make this work? Am I being unfair & stubborn? Do you sense pride in my reasoning? He is accusing me of not loving him since I am willing to give up so easily. Is he using reverse psychology? I know how I feel and what I believe is right, but need some good Christian advice to make sure I am not basing my decision on pride & foolishness. With God I know that anything is possible, even saving this relationship. I’ve been praying for him to come around, but is there anything else I can do? I’m at the point where I am just resting in the Lord, but want to know if I should be doing instead of resting or is it him that needs to come around.

christian dating advice please? you see, theres this girl named angela who is really beautfiuland i have occasionally had dreams about kissing her. i wouuld love to kiss her becuz she is as i said very beautiful, but what i want a relationship that is true love, someone god wants meto be with. truth is, though i find myself very attracted to her, and her frends have asked me repeatedly to ki9ss her becuz she talks about me all the time, the things is i dont feel like im meant to be with her. like, i dont feel like she is a relationship that god has ordained for me. am i wrong? woul di want to kiss her and have her want to kiss me, but god does not want meto be with her? like, would go dgive me attraction to her, but not want me to be with her? whatever he wants im all for.

I need christian dating advice? OK. My girlfriend wants to get a lip piercing and she may be wanting a tattoo. I know that piercings and tattoos are sinful as it says in the bible, but how do i tell her that the bible says she shouldn't without sounding like on of those people who just point out scripture to make others feel guilty? We've been through an argument as well as a "heated discussion" about it and I'm afraid to bring it up again. I really care about her and i'd never force her into a decision. See, i look at how God loves. He allows us to choose. He doesn't force us into doing whats right - otherwise we'd be mere puppets of his and that's not love. And no matter how much it may hurt me to see her mar her already beautiful face, i will allow her to choose whether or not to get it. However, i simply want a way to explain to her how i truly feel about it. Anyways thanks for reading. If you have no answer then please pray for me. God bless you all.

some advice? Christian girl dating a "Christian" guy...? Almost two months ago I was on facebook when a guy I went to school with freshman year told me he became a Christian. We began talking more and our friendship escalated into a dating relationship, only, virtually, because he's stationed in Pearl Harbor and I'm all the way across the globe. He seemed very interested in Jesus and I saw it as an opportunity to share more of Jesus with him. I encouraged him to read his Bible and sent him part 1 of our church's foundation course out of 6. However, after approximately a month he still has not completed the quiz that goes along with it.. I do feel like I rushed into this, but I feel as if he is at a critical point in his walk with God and that he needs me. He doesn't plan on ever leaving me...and for a while I felt the same, but I definitely don't feel ready for the commitment. I know as a Christian I'm not supposed to be led by feelings, but by the Spirit. I'm thoroughly confused right now as to what to do. But God put it on my heart to ask on here. There is another guy who is grounded in his faith that I'm really attracted to. I was involved with him in the past, but he broke off with me because we were causing each other to stumble. I'm very glad he did that. Now he is much closer to God. I feel as if he's the one for me sometimes (sounds so stupid but...) I have feelings for him, definitely, but Idk if its a soul tie :/ We only talk in person now when we see each other in church. I think he may be waiting til I turn 18, but I wish I knew whether he still has feelings for me or not... Any advice?

Christian advice on dating? I have been dating this guy for about a year. God has honestly told me that i dont need to be in a relationship with a guy right now and says i need to end it. I want to marry this guy i LOVE him to death and i want him to wait for me until God says its okayy to start dating, But that seems so selfish and i dont know what to do. I really dont want to break up with him and im just scared because i know im not listening to God. What do i do?

Dating advice for a christian? I live in a very Jewish community and am a christian. My high school is 60-80% Jewish. I'm not a racist but many of the parents of kids in my school are however there kids tend not to be as i have many Jewish friends despite their parents getting upset that they are soliciting with god forbid a christian. So I was wondering if i should hold out on dating till college so that i won't have any problem with racist parents, religious fights etc. or if I should ignore the parents and just date. I don't believe in sex before marriage kissing or even hugging till college so it would be more like a friendship with a girl vs the common idea of dating. any advice?

Some dating advice please, Christian perspective appreciated...? Sorry about the length in advance, but please read and respond.... Not sure where to start, so i guess I'll start from the beginning. I am dating this girl who is two years younger than me, we met at church and went to the same highschool. She'll be a junior and I'll be a college freshman this year. We've been dating for 3.5 months now, and everything seems to be going great. We are very open and honest with each other and have set physical boundaries for dating and are both pretty solid in our faith. So from the surface everything appears all great. However, kinda deep down I feel like I shouldn't be dating her, I don't really know how to explain it. When I'm around her I feel so amazing, and can just be myself. I've been told by her and others i'm a great bf to her (not bragging, i don't think i am, but it's what i've been told). I open the car door for her, hold her hand when we walk, embrace her when she's sad, don't let her pay for ANYTHING when we are together, tell her she's beautiful, etc.. To me, I feel like I'm doing a good job displaying agape, or selfless love like God calls us to do. But when I'm not around her, something inside me says I shouldn't be dating her. I've prayed about it, pleaded with God for some explanation or reason or for the feeling to go away, but nothing seems to change. I told her I loved her a week or so ago, because when I'm around her I honestly feel I love her, but now I'm questioning whether or not it's true love. I can't tell if it's the devil trying to tear us apart, or if God is trying to say something to me. It's really starting to get me down :( Advice? Any help please...I really need it

Christian teenage dating advice please... ( :? At my school's homecoming dance I met this guy. He asked for my number and we started texting. This dance was exactly a month ago and I I have texted this certain guy for at least a little bit eveyrday. About a week ago he kinda asked me out. I refused(even though I like him), because at this point of my life I am struggling with my walk with God and I had come to a point where I was wanting to actually talk to God and read the Bible. Then also I needed to focus on school work and all. So that's what I told this guy and he respeted me for my answer. We are just friends. However, I have been feeling lately that I have been craving a relationship with him. But, I know refusing going out with him was a good thing. But this craving is little out of control. I am not sure what to do. Any suggestions? Few facts about situation: I am 15 years old. I have never dated any guy yet. This guy is amazing, but I don't need another thing in society distracting me from God. Help? :) Thanks ya'll! Yes, he has grown up in a Christian home. However, I really don't know his heart (only God does) so I am not completely sure what his walk with God is like.

ATHEISTS answer please: what potential problems do you see with dating a Christian? Any advice from experience I just asked this question to everyone but it mainly seems to be Christians answering it so now I"m narrowing it down. I've never had romantic feelings for a CHristian before, I always assumed it just wouldn't work out. Now I do have those types of feelings, but am still not sure if it could work in the end. What do you think?

Advice for a Christian dating a Buddhist? I am American, Christian, and my gf is a Korean Buddhist. She seems to get offended whenever I ask her about her religion, which is pretty strange to me, because I don't mind talking about my religion. Any advice? I should say that I dont bring up my religion much with her but dont mind talking about it with other people. I would like to learn about how and what she believes but she seems not to want to talk about it at all. Ok, Here is what the bible says about being married to someone of a different religion: 1 Corinthians 7:12-14 (King James Version) King James Version (KJV) Public Domain 12But to the rest speak I, not the Lord: If any brother hath a wife that believeth not, and she be pleased to dwell with him, let him not put her away. 13And the woman which hath an husband that believeth not, and if he be pleased to dwell with her, let her not leave him. 14For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband: else were your children unclean; but now are they holy. So it is not forbidden in the bible if any of you Christians are enquiring about this ;)

I am a Christian man dating a stripper coz I want to help her change. But its getting complicated. Any advice? I'm dating this stripper coz the Bible teaches us to love thy neighbor. But it hurts to see her in the strip club and then she goes off with different men into the vip room. They also text her at odds hours of the night and she leaves. She is on drugs and I think she even works as an escort on the side. She is slowly luring me into her word of sin. How can I convert her back to the way of Christ?

What are the best christian dating sites if I'm a woman and want a bigger male-female ratio? What are the best sites for a 20-something woman where the site has more men than women (better odds)? Any other tips/advice/cost considerations regarding christian dating online sites-helpful! Thanks!

i need some dating advice from a christian...? theres this guy i really like - and he likes me. we have this connection that iv never felt with a guy before. but im a comited christian and hes not. i always sed/promised myself i wouldnt go out with a nonchristian as i want my life to evolve around God fully. im at a dilema....what do i do?

general dating advice for a christian guy not looking to "get some"? i am a 16 yr old christian guy. I am not looking for just some old "fling" i want a real relationship, but unfortunately i am not fluent in speaking to girls...at all. any advice on how to get a fellow christian girlfriend would be nice. also, if you are a christian girl, what do you look for in a guy, not like height and eye color, but things that can be altered plz. the more things you like the better, i know that girls don't have to be christian to have self-respect but, i don't want to date someone outside of my religion, just the way i am, sry

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Christian dating with some problems.Advice Please? Earlier in the day,my boyfriend texted me yesterday and he said that a girl that is close to his grandma said that I cheated on him,he said she thinks she is hating.I dont know this girl,and she keeps buggin him about it,and its getting to his head. Later on on the middle of the night last night he called me because he said something was bothering him and it on his mind.What happened was that the same girl and him were in the room,and they were getting ready for a party earlier that day, she asked if he can put lotion on her.He admitted,it was just her legs.So then he leaves,and then this girl strips naked and goes in the room and kisses him.He said he didn't do anything,and i want to believe him and said he was call me later today to talk more about this,i couldnt handle the thought yesterday.We are both saved christians,WE DONT HAVE SEX,and we know thats till marriage,and I want to handle this the right way without buggin out,but I dont know how.

i am a christian, dating a mormon.. i need some advice about a few things.? Ok well first off i am a single mom who has already been divorced.. and now raising my 11 month old son.. i am christian, and was raised that way. i do believe it's good to raise your children in your religon.. but i don't want him to think any other religon is wrong, that's for him to decide when he grows up.. ok so that's a little about me.. now i am dating a guy who is mormon.. and he has no problem dating me, or kissing me, any of those things.. even eventually getting romantically involved. but my question is.. is this all ok, i mean if i ever got married to a mormon, i would never become mormon, and i wouldn't raise my son that way. how would all of that work.. i have asked him about the way things work about marrying someone who isn't mormon, and he told me, it doesn't matter what the person is, mormon or not, if you love them, then people will except that you are both different. if we ever had kids. what religon would they be. i am not against his beliefs. also, his family is really into there religon, and i am afraid that they arn't going to except me for being christian. i have nothing against what they believe. i just want to make sure everything is going to be ok, if we were to get serious.. especially because i already have a child of my own, and if i ever get remarried i would love to have more children, and not sure how it would work if whoever i marry is a different religon then me.

Christians...dating advice? How do you know if he's the one? I'm 18 and he is only my second bf ever. I'm not by any means sure he's the one. I mean, he's a great guy, but how am I supposed to find out if hes the one unless I date other people? Should I just be friends with him at this stage, and then see what happens in the future? (This would mean breaking up with him right now). Do most Christians just remain friends with potential spouses and casually go on dates with them to see if they're compatible? I mean, it's weird to be serious about several guys at once, so would just staying friends be the answer to that, unless you feel drawn toward one after being friends for a while?

Have any advice or good sources of information on Christian dating? I need help now. ? I am well over 30 and dating. It was my Christian women friends who said, "why not?". No, I dont follow them blindly...but I do respect their input and believe it is important to fellowship and get good Christian counsel. Anyhow, now that I have met someone through my church--it has become rather complicated. Seems that every couple we meet has one member that is pushing for marriage and the other is just trying to figure out what to do. These are all nice people and devoted service oriented Christians. But none of them can make up their minds on the issues of meeting (is it God ordained and if so, what do we look for?), dating, marriage, sex and the rest of it. I'd like to tell myself that life expectancy wasnt so long when the bible was written and therefore, its different when you have an annulment over age 35....but noah lived to be like 600 or something and he had only one wife.....You should know that every one of these people wants a God Blessed commited marriage...not one of them would shy away if they were sure.....but since we already have a past and since we are all sinners anyhow....how are we supposed to know what to do? We have prayed together in small groups and me and my guy pray all the time. Is dating just strictly off limits for those that are divorced? widowed? or otherwise single over 35? help.

As a Christian woman, is it okay to date....??? (Christian advice please)? A man who doesn't go to church every Sunday? I am a Christian who is involved in the church. I attend church every Sunday. I've known this man for almost a year. we just casually talk and go out to dinner. Its never been nothing more. We recently considered getting to know each other more and seeing where it goes. However, he told me he has a relationship with God, believes and is spiritual. But sometimes he's too tired to get up and go to church after a long week or work and the gym, so sometimes on Sunday he'll get the word through the tv. I said I want someone as dedicated as I am, and we cut things off. Was this wrong, does he not need to attend church every Sunday. I just think it's odd... and I assume he'll attend church much less than he will watch it on TV. Thanks Ashley for the book... I'll look it up. I was thinking about the courting.. thats why has been going on. However, we considered dating... until all the issues of church came up.

I am Christian and dating a mormon... i need some advice about kids.. just read my details? Ok well first off i am a single mom who has already been divorced.. and now raising my 11 month old son.. i am christian, and was raised that way. i do believe it's good to raise your children in your religon.. but i don't want him to think any other religon is wrong, that's for him to decide when he grows up.. ok so that's a little about me.. now i am dating a guy who is mormon.. and he has no problem dating me, or kissing me, any of those things.. even eventually getting romantically involved. but my question is.. is this all ok, i mean if i ever got married to a mormon, i would never become mormon, and i wouldn't raise my son that way. how would all of that work.. i have asked him about the way things work about marrying someone who isn't mormon, and he told me, it doesn't matter what the person is, mormon or not, if you love them, then people will except that you are both different. if we ever had kids. what religon would they be. i am not against his beliefs. also, his family is really into there religon, and i am afraid that they arn't going to except me for being christian. i have nothing against what they believe. i just want to make sure everything is going to be ok, if we were to get serious.. especially because i already have a child of my own, and if i ever get remarried i would love to have more children, and not sure how it would work if whoever i marry is a different religon then me.

Can I get some Christian men's advice on dating? My boyfriend and I have been dating for three years. He's 19 and I'm 21. We're waiting to say "I love you" until we know we want to get married, but he doesn't feel ready to think seriously about marriage yet. I know he's the guy I want to marry and that I love him, but he's not sure yet. Is this normal for a guy after dating three years, even though he is only 19? Thanks.

Please help...advice on Christian relationship? Here's the deal. I met a guy on a Christian dating site a few months ago. We're both 18. We talked for a month and then he asked me to be his gf, and although I briefly considered that we'd both be experiencing changes in our lives soon (college in the fall) AND that we live 12 hours apart, I said yes anyway since I liked him very much. Here we are 2 months later, and we need to think about what we're gonna do. He wants to meet in person, which I thought was a good idea originally but my parents keep saying how itll make it harder to be apart once we take that step. Also, they dont think I should be tied down right now, especially going into college where I'll meet new people. It's not so much that, but how will I know he's "the one" if I never date other people? I'm starting to agree with my rents, even though I still think my bf is a great guy. He, however, wants to continue our relationship and not even open it up to dating other people. I suspect he is so afraid of losing me b/c I'm his first girlfriend. So, now I'm utterly confused because I feel bad to break up with him when there's really nothing wrong with his character, it's just a tough situation. I'd like some advice from how other Christians handle dating...do you become good friends first before u officially are a couple, or what? But anyone is welcome to give me their input! Maybe I should have been more clear...it's nothing shady, I mean we video chat and talk on the phone and stuff, and we've talked for hours every day for months. I know I still can get to know him more, but please don't get hung up on that part of my story...it doesnt matter how we met really, just see it as a long distance relationship.

need christian advice on marriage please? I've been married for a little over a year now. My husband was not a christian before dating, and tried to do all that he could to "win me over" which included lying about himself and "pretended" to be so interested in God. I had many signs that show that God did not want me to marry him, but for some reason I overlooked those signs perhaps because I didn't want to see them and I was so afraid of being alone. I was also going through a very traumatic, emotional time in my life. Well, we married and shortly after I realized that my husband had an addiction to video games. I believe it's great to have your own interests and hobbies, but he would do it for hours every day. It was all he thought about and he would even forget to eat and sometimes wouldn't sleep. He wouldn't take any responsibility to do what needed to be done. He very rarely would go to bed with me or even make love to me and we were newlyweds!!! Once in a great while, if I got angry enough, he would then decide he should have "sex" with me and after wards would sometimes say, "there, see i love u" or "there, u should be good now" and off he'd go to the games again. He would also ignore me and only talk to me if he was telling me about his games or football. If I ever had anything to say, he would never show interest...even when he was away from the game. Also, he all of a sudden, after marriage, showed no interest in God or going to church with me and later admitted that he wasn't into it like I was. Before marriage, he acted like he would like to have children with me, but I found out after marriage, that he doesn't want to have children. This all went on for, well 12 months of my marriage... a whole year!!! I tried many times to talk with him about it all and he would either say nothing at all and go back to the games or say "yea" or shrug and say, "sorry" and walk off. He would do this even when I kept telling him that if things stayed the way they were, then I wanted out of the marriage. I felt like I was just a piece of furniture to him or a "prize" that he won and forgot about. Just within the last 2 months, he has decided to try because I was extremely close to getting divorce papers. He now tries to listen and pay attention to me once in awhile, but the problem is that's it's a little late. I feel that God has helped me to forgive my husband, though it still hurts a lot, but I feel I have grown so far away from him and I don't trust him. I don't like him touching me at all.The biggest thing that haunts me is that I was not in God's will when I married. I've been praying a lot about all of this and I keep feeling like God want's me to get out of the marriage because it was not something that He brought together. I would really appreciate advice on whether or not it's ok to divorce if the marriage was outside of God's will and if the husband lied about who he was. Thanks so much.

Good dating advice for Christians? I want to know how far to go, ect, any helpful advice would be great!!

Girl advice from a christian perspective? should i give her a chance? say a nice guy, doesnt sleep around met a girl that slept around heavily....should the girl being given a second chance if she was going to change? should us Christians date this girl if she wanted to change? because the non-believers are telling me no...but what do the believers say?

I need advice from Christians!!! on Dating? Ok well there is this girl I like. And I am Christian were as she isn't. And so I don't swear and all that stuff and like everything well yeah I am Christian. But the problem with this girl is she is bisexual. Would it be wrong for me to go out with her even though she is bisexual? And she does swear sometimes but not that much and there is like no way she could stop me from being a Christian if she trys to do that then why be with her? So is it wrong for me to go out with her? I know I am saying I will not be like Solomon and turn away from God. Im just asking would it be sinful to even date her. Im not saying like marry her. Well I mean she like couldn't distract me from God. Like I know some people that got like lost in there girlfriend and did everything she said and turned away from God and I am just saying I would never do that thank you EM I really liked your answer

Christian Advice! I wanna date my best friend.. shes sometimes brings up that we wont get married . but i do.? I dont know how to tell her i really like her,, im 19 shes 18 shes really a great girl.. i was always that dumb jock that got all the girls and she knew about them.. now i wanna be with her but shes my bestfriend.. through good and bad... no we are both christian. .. advice from a christian perspective would be nice

Christian dating question--Please help!? I was raised in the church, but I've just recently deepened my relationship with Jesus Christ. I'm not sure how to broach the subject of boundaries--or the fact that I'm a born-again Christian--with dates. I've never really had to do this before, and I'm not sure when or how to introduce the topic. I don't want to send guys running for the hills, but neither do I want to form a relationship with someone who does not share my faith. Unfortunately, I haven't met any singles at church, so with most of the people I might go out with, I do not know where they stand as far as their Christian faith. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. If it helps, I'm in my early twenties. Thank you!

Asians and Religion? (need dating advice for an atheist who likes asian girls)? Now, heres the deal... I've always liked asian girls. I've been going through dates with them to try and find one that i like. The biggest problem i run into actually is religion. It seems like a lot of the ones i try to go out with are very christian. VERY Christian. I, however, am very openly atheist. I think my problem is that i find filipina girls very attractive, and have tried to date 3 of them, and all are very catholic. 2 korean girls i've tried dating were also very christian. The only ones that weren't religious were chinese, and i ran into cultural problems with them. Of the 3 chinese girls i tried dating... one said that her parents would hate me since i'm white and not a business major, and another one of them was very chinese and didn't speak very much english. Of the 7 or so asian girls i've tried dating in the last 6 months, only one of them is prospective and its hard to make any progress with her in general (lots of drama). Anyways, is there any generalizations/advice for me to try and meet non-religious asian girls who speak english kind of well and aren't too traditional?

Christian ladies: dating? Got a question about dating and thought I would seek your advice. There is a girl I have gone on a couple (two) dates with. Nothing serious (no sex and not even kissed yet). There is another girl who I am tempted to ask out. The questions are as follows: 1) If a guy is not dating a girl seriously do you see a problem with him asking someone else out? 2) If you were the second girl would you say no solely based upon the fact that the guy is currently going on date with another girl? Once again the girl I have gone on dates with is not serious and not sure where it is going. And this other girl has kind of caught my eye and since I am not serious with the other thinking of asking her out. I appreciate any advice. I prefer Christian answers but will take any good advice. kellieebrooke - I am interested in the first girl but not sure if it will go anywhere. And for some reason this other girl just really caught my attention and not even sure if she is interested. I am just thinking of asking her out. Who knows probably neither one will be the one I spend forever with.

Has anybody used any of the dating ebooks? Like Christian Carter or the like? What is the best? In desparate need of dating advice, as seems everything i do is wrong, was looking at the ebooks. But seem like a scam, anybody have info?

What would you have done? My apostolic friend... Christian advice please :)? My friend has a 16 year old daughter 'Kayla'. Kayla has been dating this guy for about a year and her mom found her cell phone and started reading the text messages. This is what some said: "Text me back. This isn't f**king funny" "You will call me back if you know what is good for you." "I want to go further than just oral..." "Call me back or I'll kill myself" "I hate God and I hope I burn in h*ll" My friend and her family are apostolic Christians and after finding these text messages, she made her daughter and him break up. She said if he doesn't leave the family alone, she might have him arrested (since Kayla was only 15 when they started dating). What is some good advice I can give my friend? Thank you very much **hugs**

How close of a relationship should a single christian woman whos dating have with her childrens father? Im a christian single male dating a christian single woman, we look to possible marry. I'm not comfortable pursuing anything any further because of the relationship and current connection (communication) with her childrens father who is in prison. I think to a certain degree the relationship and communication should only be about the children and kept to a minimum. She disagrees. My issues are the way she carries out tasks for him, they act like they were married. My biggest issue is the emotional tie between the two of them. Please help I need advice on the does and donts.

I'm looking for free christian dating singles websites,any of you guys know any free christian dating sites ? So I decided to give this free christian dating singles websites a try. I heard of people finding the love of their lives on sites like that. Did any of you guys try free christian dating singles websites. If you did can you please share your experience on free christian dating singles websites. I would highly appreciate any advice. I'm trying to find a good christian man, who is truly christian. I'm lonely, so decided to give this dating websites thing a try. Thank you in advance Joan

christian dating guidlines? so there is a girl who i have been hanging out with reccently and has told me that she likes me. i may have feelings for her too but i am a Christian and follow the guidlines i am given. this girl recently has turned to God and has given up her past of what has happened to her including losing her virginity. im not sure what the rules are of dating anyone with this sort of sutuation. do you have any advice of what to do?

Christian advice.........................? Okay heres the story. The girl that i'm quarting brother has been a main topic lately of us. I'll start with, he plays worship for church nearly every sunday, and always has to get involved biblically in a conversation wiht a elderly christian. When we went to a friends house, he volunteered himself to play guitar to at first, play worship songs, but ended up playing his own songs and talking about them.And every time theirs a worship circle, he has to join. Now he sounds good, but he also is dating a non christian girl, whom he sneaks out with nearly every day from school and from chores without his parents permisssion. when with his other friends, he swears, smokes cigs(without his parents knowing), and very so often drinks. He even gloated to me and other friends about when they went to isreal for a MISSION TRIP, he smoke pot with some russian soldiers. And one friend had pics of him drinking with them. He is very rebellios to his parents. He is underaged. His parents don't know what to do with him. And my concern with him and my question, is why does he act one way around others, then comes back to be this god boy only to go back to his ways. Oh... im not sure he has repented for most of these, cause he still hides and does things his parents don't know about. And the girl he is dating, he has cussed out me, his sisters, and his parents, because they did nothing but wonder where he was one night. Me and my gf have talked to him personally, it has not worked, and his parents have talked to him, and it hasn't worked. I do not appreciate him leading worship, while he still acts the way he does off the stage. He hasn't changed, and his tounge is still full with lies. So my question is, how do I bring this up with pastors at my gf's church? She doesn't like the idea of going to them. She still thinks he completely follows God. But me and others don't see it at all. And we see him as much as she does. I've talk to her about it, and she won't let me do it, but on the other hand, i kinda don't want a non repentent sinner leading worship to show off his guitar skills.(p.s. when he leads, he always gloats about himself afterwords, and is not very humble.) p.s. hes in a band, that advertises being a christian band, but they are completely about themselves, and sell thongs and bras with their logo on it. And one member even left them, cause he didn't like them claiming to be christians, and doin charity shows, when they really weren't in their hearts.

Need dating advice / religious dating? I've tried many of the popular dating sites already like match and plentyoffish.. I'm a very religious person so I'm looking for a man who shares my views and let me tell you, they're quite hard to find on those sites!! So i was hoping to hear from you if you have any other advice (could be web sites or irl) to find that special person that shares your religion? i know many christian people meet their soulmates in church but unfortunately I live in a really small town..

Are there any Christian guys who are virgins but dating girls who are not? I'm 22 and waiting until I'm married to have sex. I'm currently dating a girl who has lived with a guy, slept in the same bed as him and had sex several times with him over 2 years. She's only 20. She's a Christian now though but I can't get over the fact that she has been with another guy intimately!!! Are there any guys who are or have been in my similar situation? What helped you get over that? I need some real, Christian guy advice. Serious answers only please.

Christian Dating Question: When you're dating... How far should physical contact go? So I've been dating and talking to this guy for almost over a month now... I'm 16 and I think he's going to turn 18 soon. He keeps on hinting at stuff about falling in love and he's really sweet. He became christian about 5 months ago and he's been really christian ever since. Except now I feel like I might actually distract him form getting close to God because... maybe liking me he begins to think stuff. Like I know he really wants to kiss me... like he kind of hints at it... though I doubt we will and he really wants me to give him a hug... And on our first date we held hands.. kind of... it was cute... and he like poked me and just touched me innocently a lot. But I was wondering... how far as in physical contact can I go when were dating without it leading us to have sex. The things is I've never dated before so he's my first boyfriend and I never touched guys like held hands or stuff like that. It's all new to me... So I feel really confused.... Please any kind of advice is appreciated. =] Anyway I kind of let him know that I didn't want to go any farther than holding hands for now and I wonder if he's mad at me or upset or something... But then what about respecting me..? And what about his beliefs I'm just doing this because I don't want him or me to regret things... Will he understand that? And if he doesn't should we stop this relationship?

HELP! Christian dating boundaries??? I've been getting mixed views on what is moral or immoral to do while dating (within a Christian context). Until marriage: No sex... Obvious. No oral sex... Okay. 2nd base??? Talking dirty? Making out? Kissing? Hugs? Any physical contact? What are your viewpoints? Opinions? Advice? Thanks and God bless! ^^ ----> To dizzy r: I'd be mad if touching my breasts DIDN'T make my boyfriend want to have sex with me! Haha! ^^

Recently, obscene pics from an adult dating site began popping up on my computer. How do I get rid of them? There is a place on the screen when they pop up that says "click here for abuse". When I click it it sends me to a screen that says to remove program go to start>control panel>add and remove programs>"public messenger". But when I get to add and remove programs, public messenger is not one of the programs. There is nothing even similar to it. I've tried e-mailing the site that is sending these pop up ads but it doesn't seem to matter. I am a Christian and I would be mortified if a friend borrowed my computer and one of these ads popped up! I used to belong to a Christian dating site and I'm wondering if that is how this adult dating site got my information. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. I'm tired of seeing women's boobs popping up every time I check my e-mail. Thanks Stacie

Christian dating problem please only Christians answer? ill try to make this as short as possible. im 19 my ex boyfriends 19 im a christian my family is my exboyfriend is and his family is. So we started dating 3 years ago and after three years his family decided they dont like me. they made all this stuff up like im not even nice to him and im using him and all this stupid stuff. then they go and tell people. and then when you confront them about how thats not true they say the reason they dont want us together is because they dont have peace and they think God would give them peace if i was the right one for him. and he never stood up for me and what not and so now we are broken up.. which brings me to ask 1 can youre parents know Gods will for the childs life? 2. do you ahve to break up because of your parents? what advice would you give?? we live in Va so no hes not around his parents all the time.. when he lived at home things were fine.. so its not like they even observe him.. and hes still miserable and he did what they said

relationship problem... christian advice preferred.? I'm 15, im a christian and i met this guy at my church. after a few months we started dating since then we've broken up and gotten back together about 5 times. we were broken up for about a month and we had sex. it was a huge mistake and ive repented and everything and we havent done it since, im aware that he however, doesnt regret it at all. and he even thinks he should stop going to church. we got back together rigth after we had sex and a few days ago he said "what has God really done in my life?" and has said stuff like "its impossible to know that God truly exists you can only hope" i dont know if im wrong here for getting upset with him about those things.i know God exists because i feel him in my life my life hasnt been fine and dandy since i devoted myself to God but that hasnt changed a thing in my faith. the obvious answer would be to break up with him but i love him way too much to think i could. I just need help because i dont know what to do anymore...any advice? i should also say that we argue about the stupidest things everyday. we see eachother and hangout every day and i love hanging out with him... most of the time. he's said he still believes in God but that he just doesnt think church has done anything for him. he hasnt broken up with me we've either agreed on a break or ive broken up with him. i just cant bring myself to break up with him after everything we've been through together.and yes, i know it was a mistake to have sex and NO im not still doing it. and yes he has respected that.ive told him before that tehre are only so many times he can say sorry before it doesnt work anymore but he responded to that by not apoligizing when hes wrong anymore. hwe just waits for me to go to him and act like everythigns fine...

Christian advice websites? Hey, y'all? What are some sites or Christian forum-oriented sites with great articles that focus on teenage girls dating older men (ie., a Christian 16 yr old girl dating a 20 year old young man)? I tried to go to two forum websites, and they didn't have any threads on this topic. It's a topic I'm researching. True but I want to do further research and reading as a WRITER. Christian article reading that is. Worst-case scenarios and what not.

I need good Christian advice on splitting time between my friends and the boyfriend... Emergency!!? Hey everyone. Okay my boyfriend and I have been dating for around a year and my best friend and my boyfriend absolutely hate each other. Its bad!! Well they steer clear of each other but its not until recently that HUGE problems have been coming up about how much time he is spending with his friends and how much time I am spending with mine. Well tonight, my boyfriend and I had plans made and all of a sudden he cancels at the last minute to tell me he's going off with his friends.. Well that hurt and I got mad and then he starts going off about how we should break up because we are always fighting about this stuff. So I have till like Wednesday to save the relationship... Now keep in mind that I need Christian advice. He and I go to church and are devout Christians and I know this is not supposed to happen yet. Just what do I do? Please help!! Thanks so much!

Good/Bad to Christian Dating Websites? Anybody had any good encounters with christianmingle or equallyyolked or any other websites for single Christians? I am 28, freshly single, and looking for a good Christian girl and it's tough at this age to find them. Any advice?

Need some advice on dating? I am a single guy age 27. I am a devout christian and have tried dating women from church etc. I honestly havent found much luck. I have a major problem with forever being in the "friend zone" ( I have a million female friends but can never get beyond that point) I am the guy everyone comes to for advice on their relationships but never seem to be able to get a lasting one of my own. I guess Im lookin for ideas on #1- Places I can meet girls who arent lookin just for a a one night bit or a F**K buddy #2- How can I stop this eternal problem of being all the girls "best guy friend" but nothing else?

I have never had a boyfriend, I kind of want one but not really, I need Christian advice too? Okay so I'm 21 years old and I have never had a boyfriend. Of course I have been in love and had crushes since I was a teenager but I have never had a boyfriend. My parents raised me not to date when I was a teenager which is totally fine. I'm happy I was raised that way. And as a teenager I did not have time for boys because I was focused on more important things and did not have the time for dramas relationships bring. Now I am a grown woman and my parents are totally fine with me dating, However since I entered college I have never had a boyfriend. I don't know what to do. It's not like getting a boyfriend is my piority but I just don't understand why no boy has been interested in me. I am a very outgoing person and I have personality. I have friends, including guy friends but no boy has been interested in me. I mean I know my other friends have boys into them. I guess maybe it's me physically. I am not that beautiful, I guess I am average. Also I have big thighs. I have slim top but I have big thighs. I'm like pear shaped so maybe that's why boys are not into me? Anyway recently starting since last year I have just really wanted a boyfriend. I see all my friends in relationships and they seem so happy. On facebook I see my friends with their boyfriends or girlfriends and I wish I had a boyfriend. But then again I think I want a boyfriend for the wrong reasons too. I want a boyfriend because I want to feel protected and secure. And as a Christian I'm a virgin, I'm not having sex until marriage, but sometimes I kind of wish that I could do the deed if I had a boyfriend, but I can't until marriage because it's a sin! How come people get boyfriends so easily and can't? I mean, I'm kind of getting impatient, if I can't get a boyfriend now how can I ever get a boyfriend who will become my husband? I really wish I had a boyfriend to make me feel safe, secure and happy. Should I just date any boy just for the heck of it? I might not even close to ever getting married and having sex anytime soon because I don't even have any boy interested in me! ADVICE PLEASE! Thanks for reading my question and please I would like serious answers, and advice from Christians would be good too. Thank you! But I am an outgoing person and I hang out with my friends and I go out to parties sometimes. I am a very fun person I don't understand why I'm single. lol.

How should a christian relate to a relationship or what boundaries should be set when dating or courting? i will just be waiting for your reasonable advice.

Teen Christian Dating Advice Please? Okies so I am 15 and I really like this guy. I'm planning to ask him out and kiss him before the end of school... So... I'm a really strong Christian believer and I just want to know... is it okay for you to like make out or french kiss and stuff like that with your boyfriend before marraige? Please I really need to know before next week :S I really like him and hes Christian too so if I just kiss him then he might get mad and and ahh!! Please please help. Thankies

advice needed for a broken heart... christian advice, well any advice, just something, please? It's not one of those, 'we dated for a month and im hurt, heartbreaks.' It's a he was my best friend of years and boyfriend of a year or so. He was with me 24 7. My ex used to be amazing and do so much for me, he was just a wonderful bf. But in the past month, he started heavily drinking. Long story short, he stopped calling, stopped visiting me unless i gave him gas money, stopped loveing me. He just changed, he even lied about being around other girls. Then one night, he well, was so mean. and i broke it off anyhow, I know that I had to, but I love him and I'm such a mess. I'm so heartbroken. I can't function, I can't sleep, can't eat... The boy was my world and I thought he was 'the one.' and now its over.. i know it had to be, i think, but that doesnt make it any easier down to the question, i need some advice for a badly broken heart, christian advice too

I wasnt always a nice christian Girl? I am a relativly new christian, and therefore my behaviors have change alot when it comes to dealing with the opposite sex. I sometimes get very uncomfortable when men approche me showing interest in me because I have only delt with one christian relationship and that man turned out to be what I believe is the new kind of player who knows many women in the church are seeking christian husbands and uses that to play her. I was very young in christ then. Anyway. I would really like some advice about Christian dating, since biblical characters didnt date. I used to operate in a way that is not acceptable now and am not sure how I should handle men who are interested in dating. I have been celebate for about 4 years and know that sex is not part of what I am willing to do. That is a non-issue, but what about the rest? How does one learn to be a nice christian girl? :O)Thank you.

a woman needs a man? more lust now (2008) than old days? Respectful or Christian advice please I'm married. I could (and have) walked around wearing a very boring ugly plain cotton floor length dress and big floppy sun hat and still get the strangest men insisting that I date them? (I don't think "date" is the word I am looking for). I have heard some strange compliments of guys trying to get into my pants for his pleasure. (my interpretation). Is there more lust around today than in the old days? Or do I just not get "out" much into the big city? Is that what city life is like? people hitting on you left and right? I'm even wearing a really big wedding ring! I say "no, Thank you anyway." That sort of thing. But why do guys insist that "out of sight out of mind" mentality? If the man on the street does not see my husband attached to my arm, that it is ok to try to date me????! (what??!!!) and besides that, what if I really WAS a Lesbian? who says women need a man at all? Aren't we in an age of female empowerment or something? It's OK to praise God and be drawn to the single life too, isn't it? Why do people always try to "fix you up" with a man whenever you are single? Is "single" a status to be "fixed"? Is there something wrong with "single"? Do you have any words of wisdom? Do you have any encouragement to offer our single Christian "brothers and sisters" who wish to Praise God and not be distracted by lustful "worldly" people? (What advice should I tell my 15 yr old cousin? who is single?) Do yo know any inspirational books or websites to help me? Well... I have heard that Single life an be pleasing to God as well. That your single life is not meant to be pining after your future wife/husband... that time should be spent in prayer, Praising God for all the wonderful good things in this world. I think I might have read it in a nice Christian book "Boy meets girl" (?). Anyway. It was news to me! I did not know that. Sorry, to those of you who already knew such things. Here's one link to another book about being single. Maybe I can give that book to my single young cousin. http://books.google.com/books?id=CHE8loTVM6gC&pg=PA17&lpg=PA17&dq=single+life+glorifies+god+too&source=web&ots=2ZeLNmuRN4&sig=lCzq183v1HJob5gMQRAhpvsotm4&hl=en&sa=X&oi=book_result&resnum=6&ct=result#PPA17,M1 Anyway, thank you so much for all the answers to my muddled question! "I kissed dating Goodbye" Joshua Harris, a good book for a single person. http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1576730360/$%7B0%7D (He is also author of the other book I mentioned. This is the first one he wrote. "Boy meets girl" is the next book to follow this one.)

I'm a senior in High School and I've never had a date Guys are intimadated by me because Im christian? advice?

Pros/Cons to Christian Dating websites? Anybody had any good encounters with christianmingle or equallyyolked or any other websites for single Christians? I am 28, freshly single, and looking for a good Christian girl and it's tough at this age to find them. Any advice?

Christian advice on a situation with a guy.? i have liked my best friend for almost 2 years. he knows, but not because i have told him. Anyway, he has a weakness: flirtacious girls. im not like that and i never will be. it pains me to see a friend that it so close to God in every other aspect of his life fall away. i would really like to share with him how wrong is it to fall for that and he assume that "missionary dating" will work. please help and leave some verses i can share! thanks!

I need some christian advice....? Hi! I am dating a wonderful man who is a christian. He does have quite the past, which scares me. He has a daughter who is nine..and until recently, he wasn't involved in her life. He is 28 and has been married twice, at the age of 18 and later at the age of 23. He was not really following Christ at that time though. Sometimes, I honestly believe he is the one for me. We attend church together, talk about religious issues...and I love that I can do so openly without judgment. He treats me like a princess and tries to respect all my wishes/beliefs...even the ones he doesn't agree on. However, I still have doubts. His past and our age difference are BIG deals...but I feel so safe and secure and right when I'm with him. We really seem to grow in Christ together...especially when we're attending church, etc. He has changed his life...started school, tried to establish a relationship with his daughter, is clearing up past financial debts, etc. My real question here is...is it okay to have doubts? So many people say if he's the ONE, I wouldn't question it or wonder what else is out there, but I do. I worry that maybe God has something totally different planned for me. Is this normal with any relationship, or do you think it's God telling me to back off? Also, is it a sin to marry someone who has been married? Thanks! I know this is a lot...and any help is appreciated!

Christian advice Please. ? Hi there. As you can see from my other questions Im a 16 year old born again christian. I have a biblical question about marriage here. I know most kids my age are dating. But I just never had the desire to date anyone or to marry and have kids. I just don't feel like God is pushing me in that direction. But I want to know if the Bible says that christians must marry and have children? Any answers would be great. Thanks

Christian dating a non-Christian? This question is for people that believe in God and know of His word. I am Christian but i'm in love with a man that is not. Ever since I started talking to him I've been putting other things aside, like reading the Bible less, etc. Does anyone have any opinions or advice?

need christian advice about a tough decision!? my dad said no dating yet... to keep myself "pure"... but the bible says as long as you keep yourself a virgin until you are married... you are set to go... well theres this really great christian guy that i like for all the right reasons... what is right??? i am not sinning if i date this guy!?!

Christian advice about confessing premarital sex? Pls answer only if you are a brother/sister in Christ. I became a Christian earlier this year. When my husband (call him John) & I were dating, we were sexually active. Summer before engagement (8yrs ago), I cheated on John. I've confessed and asked God to forgive me for having premarital sex with both John and the other guys. For 8 yrs I've been torn about not being truthful with John about being unfaithful, but I can't bear the thought of our marriage suffering or worse John leaving me. We've worked so hard on our marriage and things are going so well now. I feel 100% confident that I will NEVER cheat on him again and my confidence is not based on a feeling, but from having cut off people who made advances. If I confess, he's sure to struggle w/ issues of trust, forgiveness, etc and I truly wonder if he'll wish I never told him. Do I tell him? Will God help him to forgive me even though he's not a follower? I wanted to clarify that I have with grace of God have stopped holding the "affair" over my own head. I tried to break up with John after the affair. Trying to figure out why I was asking to break up he asked me if I had been unfaithful and I lied to him. John is not uninformed, he was misinformed and that is what I continue to struggle with.

I need a Christian guy and girl perspective; yes its a pitiful question about dating =/ plz help!? IM SORRY ITS KIND OF LONG! As I've said in many of my answers/questions, I am a really strong Christian, so dating isnt important to me. If it happens, it happens. And i rarely grow to like someone A LOT, since im not even looking for or pursuing anyone. It just isnt a concern of mine. However, there's this one guy that i've liked for about a year now, and me and him have talked in depth about the situation, and we have agreed to be friends. It was super hard at first, and still kind of is. It's like a rollar coaster for me. Some days I dont even think about it, yet others its impossible not to. And the reason me and him connect so well is that we are both Christians and we have in depth conversations about it all the time. He's pretty much the only one who understands that part of me, and I like to believe we are on the same page. We are really good friends, and we trust eachother, even though sometimes it's hard for me to believe him when he says he trusts me , or he says he loves me. People at my school really are surprised when they hear that him and i are friends; he's the senior jock, i'm the sweet, friendly sophomore girl. (sorry this is long, i'm just giving some background) Some people would say "whatta freak, dont ask advice on yahoo answers." well folks, i have best friends, and we talk about it a lot. I just want a different perspective. So basically, I need to get over him. It's so hard, because I do love him, I love him a lot. And I just want him to be happy, and if that means without me, than so be it. But i need to stop wishing it were something else; I dont know how. 10 Points Definitely Me and him have talked about this many times before, because i was always confused because he wasnt very clear. Did he like me, but not want to date to focus on God? or Did he not like me, and was being honest? He told me that he just isnt interested in anybody, and needs to focus on God. And that was months ago, much has happened since. So i need to get over him To Tracy: Everything you said was so right on the nose, it made me cry. It was beautiful, thank you.

Dating advice needed? Hi everyone. I am a white male who is dating an Indian woman. We dated for a year and then I broke up with her because we were getting serious and I felt conflicted. I love her but my family is very religious (Christian) and she is Hindu. Then about 6 months ago we started talking about and now we are dating. She didn't want to get together because she thought I still couldn't get over the fact that she is a different religion than me. We have been dating for three months. But now I am having the same feelings that I am doing something wrong. I think I should break up with her but feel really really bad about it. I know I should tell her the truth but is there an easy way to do it? Or should I just continue to date her until she breaks up with me? Thank you in advance.

Relationship Question........SOMEONE HELP!!! (Some Christian advice PLEASE!!)? Ok so here is the story....my (ex)boyfriend and i had been dating for 2 1/2 years. (BTW we are 18&17) We were both really stong Christian's when we meet but, we let Satan drive our actions and we soon became engulfed with sin. This past weekend we did something that completely ruined our relationship...we lost it to each other. Afterwards we had alot of problems...so we decided to break things off. Two days later he does it again...but with another girl. He told me the next day about everything after he realized what he had done. I am completely done with him and decide that I need to get back with Jesus. So that night he calls and is just seeking God in everything. (which has not been him for a long time) and we are both seeking God's will for our lifes. The question is...if you or someone you know has been through a situation similar to mine...please let me know what they did and if they are truly happy!! Thanks in advance and may God bless you in all that you do. We are already back on the road to God....which means we have turned everything over to him....there will be no more sex or anything that would be a disappointment to him. BTW...SEX before MARRIAGE is AGAINST the Bible...Maybe you should read it cover to cover!!

Christian dating question? Ok, so I met this girl online a few weeks ago (i know that sounds sketchy, but its a clean site) and we've been talking like every other day on the phone (calls, texts). I meet her for the 1st time last Thursday and I really liked her, and I'm assuming she liked me. We're both Christians, but I've had more relationship experience then her (shes never kissed a guy). I want to get to know her more and try to build a relationship, but I'm afraid that since she's probably been waiting for the "right" guy, she might not give me a fighting chance if i'm not "the guy." I want to do this the right way so I'm not even interested in any type of physical stuff. My problem is that she's very shy and I can't tell if she is really interested in me or if she just very hesitant to the whole dating thing. We're going out again this Sat for lunch, but it's just tough to get a feel for this girl. I know this is long, but any advice would be appreciated.

Needing some Christian advice and support, please.? I'm going to try and condense this story as much as I can: I dated a guy on and off for three years. Whenever we'd break up, I'd start praying about him. He'd stop talking to me all together. Everytime that happened, I'd pray and God would tell me to wait for him, that he was the one for me and he would return. Sure enough, he'd come back and say that God kept bringing him back to me. But then he'd dump me after a bit and not talk to me for a while. Well, he hasn't talked to me in months, we haven't been together in probably 8 months, and I've moved on. I didn't intend to, but I fell for someone else and we're dating. But something about it doesn't feel right. I care about him a lot, but I've never really felt right about being with him. We've been together for a while and it's really shown me how much I miss being with someone. But I just can't get past the feeling that's not right... I'm not sure what to do. I don't know if I have the willpower to end it if I should and I'm kind of worried that if I do, I'll be left alone again. I don't have a real question, but any advice or spiritual guidance would be great...and if God tells you anything about my situation, that would be fantastic. lol Not to mention, I get massively anxious around him and after he leaves...he just left a few minutes ago and I'm sitting here really anxious. I've had panic attacks since I was 11, but I don't know why he would trigger one.

I need some christian advice on a relationship...? I'm nearly 18 years old and I broke up with this guy almost a year ago. I still liked him for some time, but I know that God wants to be first in my life, and I have so much going for me right now that I just dont want a relationship with ANYBODY. He claims hes a christian, but he just doesnt get it. He still really likes me and is now STILL asking my best friend to talk to me. I dont know if he wants her to make me go back out with him or what, but he is driving me insane! The only time he goes to church is if he knows I am going to be there. He goes in the morning only if theres a chance he'll see me. He'll wait in his car until the service is over than come in, or he will stay outside. And this is a guy that claims he loves God, yet he doesnt understand that I'm not intrested in dating him, or anybody. I want to go to school, and I am putting Christ first in my life. I'm at the point where I really just want to punch him in the head. What should I do?? I have tried having people talk to him, but he doesnt really listen. I think I'm going to bring it to my youth pastor. I dont want to shut him out completely and ignore him, but I'm beginning to think thats the only thing I can do. Thanks so much. Its not that I dont want any relationships, but as far as dating goes, how can you invite someone to be a part of your life when you dont even have a life to share yet? I know theres someone out there for me, I'm just waiting till God tells me who it is. thanks to all who answered

I need some dating advice please girls especially, if you don't mind girls? I'm in a dating dilemma. I like a few girls. Some more than others in different ways. I like a waitress, that's I've never met, I girl on Facebook I've only talked to for about 2 weeks (barely) and I'm not getting a good vibe from her. A good Christian girl who is cute as a peach who my best friend (who is awesome with the ladies. My mentor if you will) knows but I barely do. And last but not least, the girl I know most of all if you will. I Know her the same amount as the other basically. But this girl is different. Shes a beauty from my past. I knew her in HS from government class and now shes the head receptionist at my eye doctors office. Shes really really pretty. The problem is, it's been over 4 months since I saw her from my last appointment. The doctor wanted to hook me up but I was way to nervous to ask her out. Which brings me to my question. How the hell do I approach a beautiful girl I barely knew from HS that is just my type about dating me? heres what happend at the eye doctors. I went in. Saw her, stopped in my trakcs and started sweating. Walked up. Filled oout my insurance papers, went to see the doctor. This is where is got weird for me. After I got my eyes checked I asked if htat was the girl I knew form HS. The doctor smiled then said, yeah thats her, why? She said this while grinning at me. And I said, because you don't ever forget a girl with a face like that. She laughed and said, you should tell her that. Now girls, was the doctor right? would a girl be flattered to hear that from a guy? should I have told her that? Why did she laugh? Should I go back there and at least find out if shes still single? What should I do?

Christians in relationships: Christian advice needed? Is it reasonable for Christians to save themselves for marriage even if they've been dating for 10 years? The reason they haven't gotten married is because they're working towards their future and are not financially ready. My man and I have been trying very hard to just wait. Sometimes we cross the line going a bit far. I'm very much in love with him that its hard not to wanna be close. I just feel like I'm a bad person in God's eyes and I'm probably going to hell. That is my biggest sin.

i need some advice dating advice? the facts: i really like this awesome christian guy and i would like to be with him. he's one of my good friends and i don't want to mess things up b/w us if he doesn't like me back. especially since we're going on a 10 week mission trip together this summer. i don't want things to be akward while we're there. the problem: i haven't dated in years. and i'm scared to tell him i like him. i don't even know how to tell him. HELP!! more details: *i think about him constantly. *we talk all the time online. and he usually speaks first. *i don't think about him lustfully. i just like him for who he is is there any way that i can subtely let him know that i'm interested? either in person or while talking online.

Advice on dating for a 21 year old girl? Ok, I am a 21 year old girl. I go to a private christian college and am soon transferring to a public university (huge school) and will get my own place. I have always been extremely cautious with dating, and tend to air on the more conservative side and don't like to just "play around" with dating (date after getting to know someone for awhile). I have been on dates in the past and ended up turning down relationships down because there wasn't a whole lot between us I could tell and my expectations are pretty high. The person I seriously dated was one of my friends and we ended up breaking up due to circumstances (military, I needed to go to school) and it took me an incredibly long time to get over that, but now that I am ready its like I'm clueless. I still want to be cautious, but not so much that it prevents me from finding the right person. Any advice on things I can do... yes I'm difficult and want to wait to have sex until I am married and think that one person is worth waiting for and I like guys with good morals. What are some things you would suggest that I could do different without changing my beliefs or morals or character as well, I am about 5'3 and only 120 lbs. so I know my looks are fine. And please no stupid, dumb, or inappropriate answers- I actually am looking for legit answers and advice... thanks!

non christian dating/marrying a christian? although me and my bf are both too young to be thinking about marriage...but i do want him to get to know God and ofc possibly marry him. before i got together with my bf...i prayed to God for months and months for an answer to see if i should date my bf...i didn't quite hear yes or a no..but i ended up getting with him (bc i thought it's not marriage anyways)..but now i DO think about marriage and i DO wnat him to be baptised as well. he has been going to church with me (on and off though..but he goes 90% of the time) since we got together (1 1/2 years)...and i freak out at times bc i m so afraid he won't turn to God and i m super afraid to loose him. We broke up for two months before and during that time i prayed to god and said that if he didn't want us to be together..then i want Him to obstruct all possibility of us getting back together. and well...we got back together...so what does that mean? give me your opinon on this and all advice. (: we rarely talk about religion because like alot of ppl said..you don't want to force, pressure, or even indoctrinate anyone into a religion...so i definetly don't do that...but i just encourage him and invite him to church events etc...and let him get to know church friends etc

please i need help on dating (for christian believers only please)? hi i'm 16 yrs. old and i've been dating this guy who is not a Christian. wen i started dating him i wasnt interested in serving God but i am now and my boyfriend does not believe in God in fact he told me he sort of believe in the devil... but ive begun to really like this guy he is very sweet and a guy anyone can ask for and i dont know wat to do because i feel guilty dating him and i've prayed him like i've never prayed for anyone before and i hate the fact that he's not a Christian but i've seen him change through prayers and my parents dont know bout him or they would kill me please any advice?!?!?!?!?!

Needing good Christian advice...? I know divorce is a sin, but I can't stand my husband anymore. We have been married 3 years. We have a 2-1/2 year old daughter. My husband is not involved in our lives. He plays his video games all the time instead of interacting with us. He doesn't have any paitience for our toddler(yells at her over the smallest stuff), and sometimes even pushes her away. He blames me for everything bad that happens to him. He has even told me that I need to give up all my friends for him. I feel like his maid most days than his wife. He has even started yelling at some of my family when I'm not around. He has become rude and disrespectful. He was never like this when we were dating. I don't want to be around him anymore. And every time I try to tell him how I feel, he somehow manages to throw a big guilt trip on me for feeling the way I do. Please help me! when I say he wants me to give up my friends, it means he wants me to give them up completely. It's been a few years since I've seen most of my friends because we moved. He just doesn't want me to have any friends at all.